He seems to be more interested in girls his daughters age19-20
2006-09-09 06:33:24 · 29 answers · asked by Pure&simple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girls have been calling him on his cell phone asking when hed be able to pick them up. He says hes going to work but I don't know if he really is
2006-09-09 06:51:25 · update #1
just try be sexy n caring in front of him n get him back out of those thoughts if u really want himback.
2006-09-09 06:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by jinnie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to him about it, the key to a successful marriage is communication, it will be difficult to talk to him about and he may get defencive but do it in a way where he knows that you want him to pay more attention to YOU!!! I keep telling my husband when I feel he's not paying enough attention to me..something along the lines of " Sometimes I feel like you don't notice me as much anymore, like you did when we where younger" try to go on special dates with him or find a common interest and join it together. Men do like to look at other women, it's a natural thing to do... As I'm sure when a good looking guy walks by you, you'd take a quick look... Men are just more obvious about it. Don't worry to much and try not to let it bother you, as long as he's with you!!! You could also seek out a sex therapist to put some spice back into your sex life. Good Luck, I hope you will feel a bit better about it!
2006-09-09 06:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mu husband and I were in the same place at one point in our marriage. We started to have sex more often, I had to make the effort. I would send him naughty texts though the day and sometimes he just might come home to a very willing wife if you know what I mean. Also he is your husband pull out all of the stops and do what he likes most! Good luck!
2016-03-17 10:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is hopelessly flawed.
You simply cannot control his behavior.
There are no secret tricks despite what magazines imply.
Either he is interested in you or he isn't.
Adultery is an acceptable reason for divorce.
Jesus said whosoever looks at another with lust is guilty of adultery.
You need to determine if forgiveness is in order.
Forgiveness doesn't require that you stay while the behavior continues though.
2006-09-09 06:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, you' ve gotten something amiss in this marriage if you are asking this question.
Is he running around with them?
Are you and he arguing all the time?
Is he oggling (staring) at them in front of you?
Is he comparing you to them?
Look at the holistic picture. Has he ALWAYS been this way? In other words, has he been more interested in other women throughout your marriage, but being older now you either notice it or you have stopped ignoring it?
Hopefully, food for thought.
2006-09-09 06:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by watergirl54 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Staying in shape would be the main thing. Keep clean, hygiene is very important. Be sexually available, and a little head never hurt anyone. Accept that all men will still be "interested" in the younger, hotter, and usually UNAVAILABLE girls, that's what makes them attractive after all.
2006-09-09 06:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by igɳo★ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loves you he is only interested in you. Men always look at things they know they can't have. Mine does the same thing. I always tell him he wouldn't stand a chance. Your's probably wouldn't either. LOL!!
2006-09-09 06:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by dutchessdog1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. He is interested in his daughters? or like interested in his daughters friends?
If he likes hanging out with his daughters then let him. That is a good thing. But just tell him that you want to spend time with him too.
If he is into his daughters friends, then you've got a problem. Because that is SICK. Maybe talk to a divorce lawyer, he could tell you what to do.
2006-09-09 06:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Communication is key.
Talk with your husband and let him know your feelings. Start there. He can't fix a problem if he doesn't know there is one. He may be walking around thinking everything between the two of you are fine. Believe me I know. Sometimes mine would think just because the norm is being handled that was it.
Let your man know...
2006-09-09 06:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's only human though - as long as he only looks then what's the problem? It is normal for men to look at attractive girls
2006-09-09 06:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by kamirsam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are married to a creep, dear. There is no way to keep a man like this interested. He has a problem. So do you, and if I were you, I would get rid of him sooner rather than later.
2006-09-09 06:41:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋