Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months and I thought it was going great but I was wrong. I make her feel ways and I either don't notice it or do take it the way she does. I try my best to treat her right and make her her happy but I can't seem to make anything right. I want to be with her for life but right now it doesn't look that way. I need advice seriously.
2006-09-09 06:01:57 · 9 answers · asked by big baby 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Make sure the feelings are mutual. Relationships are give and take....both sides have to give %100 for it to work. Is she being to needy and demanding...us femaled tend to be like that.....Let her know how you feel....compromise and maybe it'll get better.
2006-09-09 06:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two on the same wavelength? What I mean is that do you gals communicate to each other and actually listen to each other? Do you both have similar goals? Share the same passions? It sounds like a communication break down is going on. You both have to listen to each other and talk things out. If that doesn't work, both of you need one-on-one and couples counseling. Then, if you still can't get it together, then you might have to reevaluate this relationship and spend some time apart. Good luck, baby.
2006-09-09 17:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me the things that are going on In a not so normal relationship can be interpreted in a multitude of ways. And it is very difficult to comment on anything or what is normal in a not so normal relationship. Sorry
2006-09-09 13:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've been going together for nine months and you ain't a daddy yet you should consider yourself lucky and get out of there while you are young enough to try again.
2006-09-09 13:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by coastcat2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not happy and she does not even realize it. Maybe she is not sure what she wants. Talk to her and ask her what she expects from you in this relationship. Communication is important in any relationship. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-09 13:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Panada Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should just lay low and make sure u try to keep on her good side and maybe ask her what's going on with her show her you care and try to fix what's wrong. good luck
2006-09-09 13:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry babe, but sometimes it just doesn't work out. If she's fallen out of love with you there's nothing you can do about it. Ya just gotta move on.
2006-09-09 13:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her don't put yourself through that.if you want someone to talk to then contact me.and we'll talk.and we can do something fun.i'll give you a cyber bath.
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2006-09-09 13:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your said it maybe she may not be as in to you as you are into her
2006-09-09 13:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋