I am not a player. I am just attracted to married women. My perfect relationship would be a long term relationship with one married woman. Do you think this is wrong? If not, where can I find one?
2006-09-09 05:55:07 · 29 answers · asked by vv01verine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may not be a player; but don't you think you do this to avoid a "real" commitment? What makes married women so attractive? The risk maybe? I am curious...I'd like to know....it is wrong; but is'nt everything?
2006-09-09 10:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sexual relationship with any married person is wrong. ALWAYS. The nicest thing about guys like you chasing sluttish married women is that now and then, some husband tends to shoot you. When I read or hear about some guy getting blown away for screwing around with a married woman; it gives me great pleasure. I only wish more were killed. That tends to happen to thieves. So, go right ahead and screw all the married ladies you want. I urge you to get as many as possible. Eventually you will be shown why it isn't a good idea. With luck, when you're shot, it won't kill you; but instead paralyze you, so you get to spend the rest of your life a crippled butthead, rather than a healthy butthead.
2006-09-09 13:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's wrong if the husband is unaware of his wife's relationship with you. I have heard of three person relationships like this, however.
Hey, why don't you just try to find a nice single woman and get married? What's the big deal about having to have an already married woman?
2006-09-09 12:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Blackadder 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you enjoy the security of knowing that these type relationships can never lead to marriage for you. Are you afraid of getting married, settling down, and having a family? You need to figure out why you only want married women, deal with it, and go from there. Good Luck!!
2006-09-09 13:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be asking this question. You should realize when you have to ask if this is wrong, usually it is. Once you tell yourself youre only attracted to married women, well then youll only be attracted to married women!
I think commitment issues, possibly some ego/control (another man's wife) might be at play here. Good luck, but please use empathy (how would i feel if some guy was attracted to my wife) Empathy would solve alot of the worlds problems.
2006-09-09 19:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Loosid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are really wrong! I don't think you are attracted to married women, you are just a trouble maker. How can you even think about breaking up a marriage that could be a happy one, especially if there are children involved? What would you do if this happened to you? It can cause a lot of trouble. You better rethink this one dude!
2006-09-09 14:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well yeah it's wrong...your not a player?...yeah okay... but you don't want a commitment...being with married woman you will never need to commit to her...so player you are...those women is playing you too. Your on dangerous grounds be careful.
2006-09-09 13:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by dod civi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u're here asking this question it means somewhere in the back of your mind u KNOW it's wrong. It's funny u should say you're not a player but you're willing to come in between a married couple and possibly destroy their marriage...sounds like a player to me.
2006-09-09 13:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DFA=Desperate For Attention
2006-09-09 13:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure is wrong in many many ways. Your heading for big trouble living the way you do.
Just why can't you find a woman who is not attached.
Seems like your happy desiring what others have.
It the end, this will bring you some very uncomfortable problems. best to stop now.
2006-09-09 12:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋