shes only 12 and she talks about sex and she always is masterbating what do i do!!??
2006-09-09 05:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by Paula B 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Tell her the disadvantages on masterbating.
2006-09-09 06:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Richie Ni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she has reached her puberty, it is kind of "normal" to do that, after all, sexual lust is in human nature for some reason. But it's important that you talk to her about what's causing her to behave in such a way? Is it her peers which are affecting her? Or does she visit pornographic sites frequently? You must tell her of the danger of having sex, like getting AIDS, getting STDs, getting pregnant, etc. If you want to stop her, you can go on to quote real life examples, of sexual incidents, voluntary and involuntary which resulted in miseries. Basically you have to start to be open with her. If she's just masturbating and talk about sex, it's relatively harmless. But you have to control her more, like, give her curfews, ask her who she goes out with, and see the person with your eyes, etc. A teenager of that age is usually unstable, and they can be easily swayed and seduced by others.
2006-09-09 13:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Paula. Listen, I was an earlier starter. I was the girl that was always glad to play doctor. It is a natural impulse really. The sex drive just begins sooner in some of us. Be kind to her. Talk to her. Guide her. She will be fine. And don't worry about the maturbating. We all do it so it is not a major worry.
2006-09-09 12:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 years old and the only advice I can give is this. whatever you do dont keep bringing up the subjecty and get annoying. dont shout at her again and again if she does anything she shouldnt. tell her once in a while that you love her very much and don't want anything happening to her and talk to her about how sex before marragige is bad. but dont over do it that will just make her wanna rebel against you and do it.
2006-09-09 12:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think an adult would know how to spell simple words like masturbate, but I guess not.
Have you ever considered that you're a bad influence on her?
You need to stop being so nasty before you try to stop someone else.
Thanks for the points, gorgeous.
2006-09-09 13:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Elitist, much? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the first answer she's just sexually miserable. I think it's very normal for your daughter to this, remember we were young also and we did it. She's just going through puberty, boys are even worse.
2006-09-09 13:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by prsweetheart34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like shes pretty serious about this stuff. bring her to a doctor and let them do the lecturing. then when you guys get home, just tell her that you cant stop her from fooling around, but just to not let you down. im 17 and i have learned that it hurts more to let my rents down, than to piss them off.
2006-09-09 13:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just part of growing up...tell her to wait until sex
masterbation is safer than sex
2006-09-09 15:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by ladyoober 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to being a lesbian and alternate life styles.
2006-09-09 13:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just going through puberty
2006-09-09 13:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋