i havent heard from my best friend in months i think her mobile number is the same but she wont answer any of my messages we had a bit of a fight last time we were out together but i thought it had all blown over anyone any advice?
2006-09-09 05:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey, everyones been through that at least once or twice so try not to worry :) The more time you spend with your friends the more likely you are to experience conflicts, as its only natural when you spend alot of time with someone!
If she doenst want to talk to you-then think about what happened between you two for her to react like this. If you wont talk to you over the phone, i would suggest writing her a letter telling her how much she means to you and just explain why you did what you did or said to her, and that you are sorry (if you are sorry :) ) and that you value your friendship that you both share.
Either that or tell her it in person if you think you can face the music :) It takes two to tango so so speak anyway in an argument! Good luck!
xx
2006-09-09 05:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well be a bit more specific. Are both of you guys from the same sex or diff. If different then there must be something you guys need to speak about (when you get a hold of each other). If you guys are of the same sex then I would say try your very best to get a hold of her or him. Try calling her from somewhere else or from other phone that she will not recognize and see if she/he picks up. If she does not maybe you should start taking it serious I mean do you know if she is even around. Maybe somethng bad happened to her and you need to apply these concerns with her family.
2006-09-09 05:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb she is looking 4 a way to hurt ya back.who knows u might have told her something while u guys were fighting that really hurt her feelings.bassicly if u started the fight i think its ur fault but if she stubbed ya on the back get over it there are more freinds out there.move on havent u ever heard the saying there are more fish in the sea
2006-09-09 06:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by ibti h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask a mutual friend to ask some harmless questions about you to her that way you don't have to confront her at first, being able to test the water before you approach her. That way you know whether to let her be or try and talk to her again but if she is ignoring texts then I think that she might have washed her hands of this friendship, either way this doesn't sound promising.
2006-09-09 06:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the same thing happened to me but I not only lost one best friend but five. They're not talking to me and not even e-mail me to see if I'm all right. But, life goes on and I can't let that situation affect me. It hurts me but at least I know that I was always a good friend after all.
2006-09-09 05:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is in love and has hooked up with a man. She is deeply in the sack at the moment and nothing else matters but this new man of hers. NO not even you. Until the euphoria of falling in love dies down she wont call you. She's switched off her phone. Dont worry, she will call you in two months.
2006-09-09 05:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by olayinka o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know how it feels to loose your best friend because it has recently happened to me. It hurt for a while, but you will have to move on sooner or later. You will eventually find another best friend. You just need to learn from your mistakes.
2006-09-09 05:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Libby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should call her and talk to her about what happened and that you dont wanna loose her friendship...maybe she is just too proud to make the first move.... if she doesnt care..or acts all inmature.....then just forget about her maybe she is not a great friend after all
2006-09-09 05:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by tweetysgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conversations over phone wont help .....meet her nd talk things out
2006-09-09 05:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best friend then you should know her place.if you her place why cant you go and apologise in person coz i think you dont need to apologise on the phone.you need to see her in person.then she will feel like you are for real
2006-09-09 05:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by rajiv a.k.a tha wi$h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋