We chatted for a long time now and I know very little about him but enough to know that I could make him crazy for me too. I have seen his picture, talked on the phone and spent endless amounts of time online. He's even stopped by my place of business but I had already left for the day. He lives in another state but not that far that I could drive .Every time I want to meet him he flakes out. He says he's unhappily married and wants a divorce. That I can live with. Sometimes people get into marriages that fail. I know I don't want to be the rebound or the cause of a breakup but I think he's more than I've ever wanted...knowing this from all the conversations we've had. I shouldn't mess around w/a married man and I really haven't...I just want to meet someone that has given me some light to my heart when I needed it.... I can't get over him until I meet him face to face...will it may, should it happen?
2006-09-09 05:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hez married. U can meet him, be friends with him. But dont come in between his marraige. He may also be lying abt his bad marraige, how can u believe him in just phone talks?? Meet him, talk with him, know him.. and then u decide what to do.
2006-09-09 05:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no reason you shouldn't meet, and play around with this guy. Unless of course, you have a little pride, some standards, or enough sense to come in out of the rain. Apparently, you don't. You say you don't want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage, you just want to do things that WILL break up a marriage. You say you don't want to play with a married man. How then, did he find out where you work? Lady you ARE playing around with a married man. That makes you a failure. A loser. Home-wrecker. Pond scum. Actually, there is one thing you can be proud of. Your actions can help some innocent children suffer for your selfish foolishness. And that should make you feel great. After all, what woman could resist the chance to hurt children. So, go for it. He's scum, so the two of you seem perfect for each other.
2006-09-09 06:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on his wife with you. What makes you think he wouldn't do the same thing with you if you guys got together? I for one would not want anything to do with a guy that has talked to me "online" for two years and has a wife. And you knowing he has a wife, in my opinion that makes you just has bad as him. I forget about him and find a SINGLE man.
However, If you do actually go ahead and decide to meet him(which I hope you dont'), then I would make it in a public place with lots of people around. And for future reference, don't tell someone that you met online where you work or where you live...etc. That is not a smart thing to do...seriously!
2006-09-09 06:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT MEET UP, Stop talking to him 1st, which means Block Him, Delete Him off Facebook, Delete that Facebook Account, get a new SIM card for your phone. If he knows where you live at exactly and knows what you look like, then you have to tell your parents. On Runescape, put him on your Ignore List, which is basically blocking him. If not, make a new account all together. All these things i mentioned above need to be done. God Bless
2016-03-27 04:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away, step far far away. You have no idea what his marriage is like. If he wanted to divorce he would have. He is living in a fantasy on line world with you. You have no idea how lucky you are that you had already left for the day when he came to your work. It would have only dug you in deeper. Simply tell him to give you a ring after the divorce. Stop wasting your time with this guy.
2006-09-09 06:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's married! What makes you think he's be faithful to you even IF he did decide to get a divorce? Stop trying to justify the relationship to yourself and get some pride in yourself! Then find someone who's truly available and can be honestly interested in you as well.
2006-09-09 06:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try find a man that isn't married especially if there is children involved and if he hasn't met you face2face yet then give up his just playing around it's like really two years of your life just talking to some guy on the phone and online when you can be seeing other man just stop talking to him and give up if he hasn't got a divorce yet then he is never going to
2006-09-09 06:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE, AND REINVENTING HIMSELF FOR YOU BECAUSE SHE KNOWS ABOUT ALL HIS FAULTS AND YOU DON'T. YOU ARE A FOOL TO FALL FOR THIS....
HE LACKS THE COURAGE, INTEGIRTY, AND CONVICTION TO TELL HIS WIFE WHAT HE NEEDS FROM HER, AND WHAT IT WOULD TAKE TO FULFILL THOSE NEEDS. HE IS NOT WILLING TO DO THAT FOR HER EITHER.
WHAT KIND OF MAN IS THAT? WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH A MAN LIKE THAT? DO YOU THINK YOU CAN CHANGE OR FIX HIM? ARE YOU THAT GULLIBLE?
OF COURSE HE FLAKES OUT. HE WOULDN'T WANT HIS WIFE TO FIND OUT, AND HE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO MEET YOU. YOU JUST SERVE HIS EGO BY REMAINING IN HIS BACK POCKET, HIS DIRTY LITTLE SECRET. YOU ARE "THE OTHER WOMAN" THAT HE IS EMOTIONALLY CHEATING WITH.....
YOUR PARENTS MUST BE SO PROUD.....
2006-09-09 06:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is wait..... If the marriage is going to end then let it end on its own without your influence (or as little as possible). Starting something right now isn't the fundation that you want to start your relationship with him on.
Just my thoughts....
2006-09-09 06:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's dangerous waters your entering into. i get that hes unhappy with his marriage but hes still married. still married...... get it? if u have waited this long to meet him then im sure u can wait a least until he has separated from his wife. don't be the other woman its never a good title to have.
2006-09-09 05:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by bell7172 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋