i can be really outgoing and i can be really shy, depending on who im with, and im not the mean type of person. im not a girly girl or a tom boy. if im lacking what in?
2006-09-09 05:30:39 · 12 answers · asked by 2kewl4skewl 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
when should i pick you up?
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2006-09-09 05:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by J G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a class on charm or something, read a book about it. I was cute when I was a sophmore and really outgoing in a crowd but when it came to boys I'd clam up. It's just a miserable way to be and eventually you'll grow out of it and things will be fine. Don't push yourself or you just end up putting too much pressure on yourself. Just take it easy and eventually it will come to you how to act.
One thing that seemed to work for me is not to expect to date boys from my school. Heck you all grew up together and are more like brothers and sisters, start going to events at other schools and meet a boy from scratch.
Gee I should have an advice column, haha.
Linda
2006-09-09 12:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not.....you sound alot like me...Shy but when around family or close friends you open up alot. A good idea would be to go out with friends that you are comfortable around and it will help boost your confidence to open up to others around you. You aren't lacking anything it is just a different personality type.. .SHY.Trust me when you turn 18 and everyone else has herpes or a kid....you'll be thankful that you didn't rush into anything. Your fine though,,,, plus you are still very young....experience is great and necessary but just dont get desperate and let down ur standards.
2006-09-09 12:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to vball. She's being very mean.
REPORTED
You're not lacking in anything! People start to date when they feel ready. Maybe there's a guy that likes you, but too shy to tell you! Just be yourself and smile. Does one of your girlfriends have a boyfriend who has cute and nice friends? Maybe she can introduce you! Good luck!
2006-09-09 12:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not lacking anything. I'm a sophmore, never been on a date either. ^^ Just be yourself and you'll get someone in no time.
2006-09-09 12:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your fine. im the same way. and i havent been on a date and im a sophomore. who cares?! im just looking to have a good time and it really doesnt matter to me if i havent. as long as im have a good time and i have friends by my side i really could care less.
2006-09-09 12:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Passion XforX Fashion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh no.there r many ppl that have never gone on a date and there 30! Always remember there r ppl that r in worser situation thans you & u will feel better. Besides One day there will be a guy that will sweep you off ur feet.
Always Remember.
FRIENDS ARE FOREVER.
BOYS ARE WHATEVER.
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2006-09-09 12:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by m3kD3S[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not lacking in anything. I didn't start dating til my junior year. Just Start dating when you feel you're ready :-)
2006-09-09 12:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by kaykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think of it this way. Another day after another and nobody asks you just keep saying. There loss. It'll make you feel about about yourself instead of saying somethings wrong about you.
2006-09-09 12:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by daddez_little_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have plenty of friends, your fine. your going to come accross a guy who really likes you for who you are, in fact what you described is what i look for in a girl.
2006-09-09 12:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact you are socially superior.
2006-09-09 12:35:47 · answer #11 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋