I dated a girl named Megan Willis back in 98-00, we were in high school. Its been quite some time since we broke up. I've been in many relationships since then, and am married and have a 10 month old son. But to this day, I still think about Megan. I worry if shes ok, I stress to think that she might be married or have kids by now. I don't know why this bothers me. I almost feel as if I still love her. I've been looking for her number or e-mail address just to see how shes doing, I don't plan on leaving my wife or cheating. But I do miss her greatly. I know she lives in Georgia somewhere. I live in Mobile, Alabama and always have. If you know her could you let me know? And what do I do? Why do I still think about her all the time?
2006-09-09 05:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
cuz mayb you still do love her
2006-09-09 05:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by grantd2089 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe because although you do love your wife, maybe this girl megan made you the happiest out of who ever you have been with, are you happy in your marriage! having a young child can be hard, i should no, but at the end of the day you have to look to the future, how do you no that this girl is still the same maybe she has changed, and has her own life, dont think about the past, make you marriage happy and work.
2006-09-09 05:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to high school loves, u will always feel that way no matter what year it is or what relationship u are in, she was your first love...the only thing to do is try to put the memories behind u....u have a family and a wife that u love so much...just alittle word of advise, dont pursue this if u want to keep harmony in your current relationship...sorry if this isnt what u wanted to hear but i have been in the same situation.......
2006-09-09 05:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by truckindad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
son you are living in the past. If she came around you"d cheat on your wife and destroy what stability your child has at present. you should have never married.your wife doesn't want to play second fiddle to a dream. wake up.grow up and be a man .take your life seriously and make your family that's here in your present happy.when and if you do run into your old,and mean old as in past girl,you can be proud of the man you've become.If you cheat on your wife,your old girl will know that you'll cheat on her.please stop being an as*hole and be a man.
2006-09-09 05:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's ok I guess just to think about her sometimes if you were still single because of what you guys have had in the past, but get over it! you are married and I don't think your wife deserves that! you thinking about some other woman, how would you feel if you knew your wife is constantly thinking about her ex boyfriend or even looking for him after many years?! I believe you should think about your wife and son before thinking or looking for someone that I believe have forgot about you already! I mean, I don't wanna sound mean or anything like that, but don't you think that if that ex girlfriend still feels something for you, why she isn't looking for you too?! have she called you or emailed you? NO!!! so, stop thinking about someone that might have moved on for sure!
Take care, bye!
2006-09-09 05:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by ni fu ni fa! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
10 years ago i went out with a man just once we did talk on the phone for a year after but lost contact. i bumped into him six month's ago and he is now married with a 2 children he pulled out a picture of his family showing me his kids and his wife was in the picture . she could not have looked more like me if she was me. he said i never got over you i have always felt you were my soul mate. is Megan your should mate. how much does your wife remind you of Megan
2006-09-09 05:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still think about her probably because she was your first love. I still think of my first love from high school and its been over 17 years. Its ok towonder how they are doing and whats going on in thier life. She must have made you very happy to still be wondering. Theres nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-09 05:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check classmates.com for friends or do a people search. Sounds like you have unfinished business maybe a promise not kept. If you keep searching you will find her. But, remember your wife and child. Who means more? Would it hurt your wife to do this? Good Luck!
2006-09-09 05:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously someone that you had strong feelings for and never got over. You need to let it go and move on or someone may end up hurt in the process.
2006-09-09 05:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE STILL CARRYING BAGGAGE FROM THAT PAST RELATIONSHIP. YOU STILL THINK ABOUT IT BECAUSE YOUR FANTASIES FILL IN THE GAPS OF MISSING INFORMATION. YOUR IMAGINATION FILLS IN WITH FANTASIES, WHAT YOU WISH THINGS WOULD BE LIKE.
YOUR MIND IS DOING THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT BEING FULFILLED IN YOUR MARRIAGE AT PRESENT. YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND DROP OFF YOUR BAGGAGE. CARRYING BAGGAGE CONTAMINATES FUTURE AS WELL AS CURRENT RELATIONSHIPS.
MAYBE YOU ARE HAVING FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY BECAUSE YOUR WIFE KNOWS YOU WELL.....ALL OF YOUR GOOD AND BAD QUALITIES. MAYBE YOU JUST WISH YOU COULD REINVENT YOURSELF TO SOMEONE WHO KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT YOU THAT YOU WISH THEY DIDN'T.
YOU NEED TO KEEP THIS FANTASY TO YOURSELF, BUT FIGURE OUT WHAT IT IS THAT YOU NEED FROM YOUR WIFE.......SII IT FOR WHAT IT IS. IT'S A SIGN THAT YOU HAVE TO TAKE ACTION, TO TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT.
FIGURE OUT WHAT IT WOULD TAKE TO FEEL FULFILLED BY YOUR WIFE......AND TELL HER. GIVE HER A CHANCE TO FULFILL YOU. SHE IS, AFTER ALL, YOUR CHOSEN LIFE PARTNER.
MAYBE SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY. YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TALK ABOUT IT. YOUR MERE PRESENCE ALONE, CAN'T BE FULFILLING ENOUGH FOR HER. ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE (BECAUSE YOU ARE FANTASIZING ABOUT ANOTHER GIRL).
WHATEVER IT WAS YOU TWO DID TO WIN EACH OTHER OVER, KEEP DOING IT. NEVER STOP. ACTIVELY PURSUE EACH OTHER. AVTIVELY FULFILL YOUR PARTNER. INSPIRE THEM TO FEEL GOOD WITH YOU. GIVE TO THEM WHAT YOU WISH FOR YOURSELF.
QUIT ENTERTAINING THESE FANTASIES AND ATTACHING THEM TO A GIRL FROM YOUR PAST. IT IS CONSIDERED EMOTIONAL CHEATING, AND IT IS COMPLETELY SELF-SERVING. IT IS NOT REALITY ANYWAY. DON'T STALK THIS GIRL. SHE WOULD HAVE CONTACTED YOU IF SHE WANTED TO KEEP THINGS GOING. SHE WAS SMART ENOUGH TO MOVE ON, HERSELF.
HAVE THE COURAGE TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE, TO FEEL THAT FEELING WITH THE WOMAN YOU CHOSE TO SPEND YOUR LIFE WITH. ASK FOR WHAT YOU NEED, AND BE WILLING TO RECIPROCATE.
IT'S MORE ABOUT WANTING WHAT YOU HAVE, RATHER THAN HAVING EVERYTHING YOU WANT.
2006-09-09 05:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just want to know her so look but tell oyur wife abput it and if you do find her tell her how you feel but make sure you just stay friends but if that dont work you were meant to be or kiss and see if its still ther but you have to tell your wife if she find out by her slef she gone kill you so you do the math but just frineds remeber
2006-09-09 05:35:23 · answer #11 · answered by Brianna J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋