why do mean deny the fact they had an affair even after they'vre been caught?
2006-09-09 05:27:15 · 29 answers · asked by BROWNLYN 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously, it's about guilt. U would think they should be man enough to at least admit it but noooo. Instead they lie about it till they're blue in the face and even if u caught him red handed on the bed w/ someone he would probably still say "that wasn't me" lol.
2006-09-09 05:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some men are stupid that way my ex bf played that **** with me all the time always made dumb excuses up or the car had trouble I even saw the dumb asshole flirt with other girls and he would be like their just friends or i'm just playing around with them some guys can be really stupid I know my ex bf was I think they still deny it cause they want us to look stupid I was so much smarter then my ex I knew what he was doing and it ticked him off
2006-09-09 06:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Because if he admits it, the next question is "why?"
2. Because if it's just sex, it's not cheating. What would you rather face, a husband who had "just sex" with some one or a husband who spent time with a "close friend," that he shared all his problems, worries, hopes, emotions....
Most women find the first easier to deal with.
Oh and by the way, cheating is not the exclusive domain of men.
2006-09-09 06:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! I guess we are stupid! But you would have to be stupid to have an affair anyway. If you are going to fool around get divorced first! Hey look at Clinton got caught and lied about it to a grand jury no less.
2006-09-09 06:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by tjinjapan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because more than women want truth, they want a believeable lie. It's important to give them some doubt. If he wants you back he is more likely to get you back if you are thinking "I'm pretty sure you cheated on me as opposed to "You definately cheated on me." You are more likely to give him the benefit of the doubt, even if there is very little doubt. And its a strategically good lie. You will mad at him fo less time if you are never 100% sure he cheated. He is probably betting your affection for him will outlast your anger over an event that "may not" have happened. Chances are, he's right.
2006-09-09 05:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its Simple!!! Its a "TEST" !!! To see if you're accepting of this behavior from him!!! & if you'll continue to stay with him after you've caught him cheating & lying about it to your face, this tells him that he can possibly doit again & get the same rusult!!! Saying "NO" I won't be treated this way & handing him his walking papers lets him know point blank that he's chosen the wrong woman to mess over!!! Wise-Up ladies and stop being so accepting of foolishness in your relationships because most men in general won't accept nor stay with a woman they've caught cheating on them & lying about it to his face!!! I know that I won't !!!
2006-09-09 09:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by DRAG RACER 7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the woman has it all wrong. It's not an "affair"; it was just something that happened spontaneously, and will never happen again.
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2006-09-09 05:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm no longer in contact with each discomfort contained in the international and who did it.. i'm in contact with the discomfort that hits in route of homestead..to my own coronary heart...to the hearts of those who contact my coronary heart. Your idiotic delight on your own gender..and the hatred you carry for the different gender surely serves as a catalyst to reason more desirable discomfort in this international. see you later as you hate the male gender...and reason the male gender to hate you... you'll continuously be a source of discomfort.
2016-11-25 22:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a typical men's behaviour. Men were teaching and learning that way, many,many years ago,generation by generation.(Macho men school)-around the world.
2006-09-09 05:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have odd thinking.
Taking care of the sexual aspect when the wife will not is deemed more of proper handling of the equipment than actual cheating.
It's still specious reasoning
2006-09-09 05:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋