I fell in love with a guy I met on the net. he lived in MA and I in LA we talked but never met for 3.5 years. We stopped talking bc I got engaged I wasn't even dating this guy I married. Once my net guy found out we stopped talking. but I never forgot about him. I still love him. I have tryed finding him about but no luck
can anyone help me get over this?
2006-09-09 05:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
net guy was 100% real no fake pics no falus stories. he was very upset when I told him that I got engaged. I explanied to him I didn't know where he and I were going. and this guy loves me and wants a life with me. He was hurt he cryed and told me he would give me the samething I just had to move to MA.
2006-09-09 05:36:44 · update #1
It seems to me that this net guy felt a bit put out when you got engaged, he must have been in love with you to, and felt a little hurt, but not to worry these things happen sometimes, things never stay the same, all i can say is i hope you find him some day, but now your'e married, just be careful your husband dont feel the same as the net guy, if you find him...the decision is yours at the end of the day. Good Luck.
2006-09-09 05:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that you got married to someone you don't love. ( Don't feel bad did the same thing, now divorced with a kid). You need to decide if you want to stay married or go and find the guy (everyone can be found). Who do you love more? Answer that one first, take little steps so you have no room for mistakes. Good Luck!
2006-09-09 05:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fantasy of the net guy, is probably what you fell for. The romance, the kind words, the idea that some out there cared and loved you.
Cool your jets, a real partner is worth more than a net love.
2006-09-09 05:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy that you would let yourself feel this way over someone you never met. If he sent you a picture of himself, it could have been fake. Everything he told you could have been false. As far as you know he could have been married. You knew the image that he wanted you to know but as far as knowing him you knew nothing about him at all. You should be happy that he is gone and you didn't make a foolish mistake.
2006-09-09 05:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get a divorce first, because you didnt love your other half. bc you still look for someone.
2006-09-09 05:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by ○believe○me○ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pick you self up, dust yourself off and take a shower. That stench will wash off
2006-09-09 05:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure.........wanna fall in love with me?
2006-09-09 05:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask your husband?
2006-09-09 05:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋