Whatdo you think about pregnat 13 year olds?

Answer 1

i think 13 yearolds shouldnt be put into the situation where they could get pregnant but if it happened id try not to judge them since the rest of the world would be doing that to her.also why is it that when ever a girl gets pregnant everyone looks at her and says shes a sl*t, a ho* etc. but no one says anything about the guy?? i mean its just as much his fault as it is hers, any way 13 year-olds should NOT be having sex!!!

Answer 2

Usually that someone has taken advantage of them. As grown up as they want to be, they have let someone steer them into something their body is not ready for. If some guy needs you to prove your love he is wrong for you. Many 13 year olds who have sex have been sexually abused at a younger age. You must think of how you'll provide for a child. You can't drive, buy a home, get a job, etc. You cant't even get married without a parent's permission.
There's a reason for all this. If you don't understand, and look at being pregnant through rose tinted glasses, you are too immature to have a baby. They throw up, they cry, they mess their diapers, they get sick and need medical attention, (which is expensive), they need clothes, food, a future. Do you plan on living on welfare? You should be old enough to provide a home and medical help for you baby before you get pregnant. It is no one else's responsibiltiy but yours. I'm sure you can provide the love a baby needs, but can you provide everything else. Sitting at home with a baby, when all your friends are going to ball games, parties, etc. is a drag. And they won't stay your friends very long when the new of the baby wears off and you can't go anywhere. If you are already pregnant, find a couple that desperately wants a child (like some friends of mine) and let them adopt it. There are people who are willing to pay all your pregnancy expenses (including living with them while you are pregnant) in order to have a child. Make wise decisions. What would you have wanted your mother to do if she were pregnant with you when she was 13?

Answer 3

For one She Should Not Be Having Sexy At The Age Of Thirteen
Really She should Not Be Having Sexy at All. She should Have Waited Till She Got About 18-Or Older So, She Could Find A Job and Start Saving Her Money And Buy Her A Car And Move Out Her Mother House Before Talking About Having A baby.

YOU WON'T TO KNOW WHY I DON'T LIKE IT BECAUSE IT MAKES THE PARENTS LIKE BAD.

Answer 4

I think it's sad that a 13 year old child has no more morals than to be having sex at such a young age. It's so sad that she never learned what should be basic knowledge.

I also feel sorry for her parents who are sadly, probably going to have to raise the child.

I'm not prejudice against teen parents. I'm almost 20 and I have a 6 month old, but I was married for two years before I got pregnant.

Answer 5

Things happen. This day in age it does not suprise me. 11 12 13 whatever. My personal opinon is pure disappointment. Eventually with time parents and family get over it but it just isn't right. It is very tough to raise a baby at any age but people must remember God doesn't give you more than you can handle, do not get me wrong, I still think it is not cool. But everything and everyone in this world has a purpose.

Answer 6

I think that it is sad and unfortunate.
I would only hope that she would have enough courage to place the baby for adoption.
A 13 year old can not even get a job to help support the baby. It is a situation that I hope many girls that age would think about before becoming sexually active.

Answer 7

That is way to young. Why would you even be thinking of that at that age. You shouldnt get pregnat until you are married. There is no way you can raise a child and go to school and have a job, there is no way.

Answer 8

Sad, very sad. My mom was 16 when she had me. Unless her parents want to raise the child for her, I'd say she should give the baby up for adoption. If my fertility treatments wouldn't have worked, I would certainly be grateful if a young mother would bring the baby into the world and offer it to a loving home.

Answer 9

A sad fact of life, I'm afraid. There are so many pressures on youngster to be grown up, not helped by the behaviour of3rd rate "celebrities", and too many organisations producing rubbishy magazines for the profit.

Answer 10

I think their parents should be taken out an beaten for not knowing what their kids are up to, and how is a 13 year-old going to take care of a baby? She is not old enough to legally hold a jo other than a paper route, and that doesn't pay enough to buy diapers, medical care, formula, clothes, etc.