do some guys do this?????? i really liked this one girl....but i used her friend so i could make her jealous.....but i feell really bad.....even though im actually starting to like this girl,.....but just the fact that i used her makes me feell horrible......should i tell her what i did....im confused....and an idiot
2006-09-09 05:15:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
grow up
2006-09-09 05:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you didn't hurt her by moving on with the friend and as far as she knows you have always liked her. Why hurt her feelings if you don't have to? If you really like her now just go from there, just make sure if things don't work out with the two of you that you never do that to anybody again!! You really ended up falling for the girl...so don't go making her feel like second best by telling her what your first intentions were. Some things are better left unsaid.
2006-09-09 12:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im a girl and this has happened to me before. Buy her something nice, tell her ur goin to say something that she prob. wont wanna hear. tell her how u liked her friend and u tried to make her jealous by goin out w/ her. tell her ur an idiot cuz u like her now not her friend. tell her ur sorry and u understand if shes mad or doesnt wanna date any more but u just had to tell her the truth cuz u couldnt go around w/ all this stress on ur chest. tell her its mainly b-cuz she means so much to u! since ur being honest w/ her then shes most likely to forgive u but just keep apologizing and beg for her forgiveness! give it 2-3 weeks and if shes still mad id move on b-cuz if she wont forgive u if ur truely sorry then u werent meant to be. Good Luck!
much loven
Sunshine
2006-09-09 12:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. It is clear that you are under 18.
The problem is that you are under 18. When you are older, both you and the girl will deal with these situations better.
All you need to do is say that you are sorry and were immature and you are only learning how to act right in relationships and with women.
YOu are not going to marry either one. There will be plenty of women in your life in addition to these - ultimately you will get over it and now you have another notch in your headboard and a story to tell your friends.
Be a man.
2006-09-09 12:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly don't bother with the girl you originally liked. That would just make it all worst. You don't have to tell her anything especially if you really like her now. It's alright that you had a lapse in judgement. You did it and it's over and now you know better.
Telling her will only hurt her now.
2006-09-09 12:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you blew your chance at the girl you really liked to begin with, If they are really good friends with eachother,,then the girl you really liked will never go out with you because you were with her friend. I think you really screwed up this time. Why would you do that in the first place? I bet you wont do that again anytime soon!
2006-09-09 12:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to apologize, and definitly show her that it deeply bothers you. cuz that is going to hurt her like hell if shes a normal girl. well it wasnt very smart of you to do that. but lots of guys do it all the time. but that doesnt make it right. so u shouldnt do it no matter what. i would make things right. no girl likes to get used. especially if she actually develops feelings for you.
2006-09-09 12:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happen to men,many times.you are not alone in this.You can do only 2 things: tell her,but you will hurt deep her feelings, and also you will screw up everything. Second thing: be quiet,do not tell her nothing,and go on in your life;also you will be a happy man.It is up to you,good luck.
2006-09-09 12:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you did and the way you feel for doing this, she might just forgive you and ya'll could hook up, or she might nmot talk to ya any more, but, if it was me, I would feel better just knowing that I told the person what I did.
2006-09-09 12:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by crazy2have3kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well praise the lord foradmiting ur an idiot now yes tell her and b honest but dont expect everything to b peachy fine
2006-09-09 12:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone else besides you knows that you used her....then telling her first before she hears it from them would be the best solution.
However, if no one else possibly knows, what's the point in hurting her?
2006-09-09 12:25:07 · answer #11 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋