You're 14 and you have a lot of sexual fantasies?
It's called hormones. You're at the age when they start to kick in and they do it Big Time. It's not wrong to be thinking about sex. This is new to you, that's all (and these are the years when they're strongest -- until you reach menopause).
In a few years, the hormones will be less overwhelming, and you won't be quite so obsessed.
Don't be in a big rush to get a boyfriend.
Sex is a funny thing -- it can be fun, it can be a big deal, it can be horrible, and it can have some really big, bad consequences (such as diseases, babies, emotional devastation).
Wait until you're in a solid relationship with a guy that genuinely cares for you -- at least for your first experiences. These hormones can really mess up your judgment.
Meanwhile, enjoy those fantasies -- fun, aren't they?
2006-09-09 08:18:36
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answered by tehabwa 7
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nope! But anyone should wait until they are ready emotionally and spiritually to deal with the consequences since our society puts so much emphasis on women being virgins. Plus with the risk of disease being so high, it pays to wait for an exclusively committed partner. I also thing that people should wait until late teens at LEAST! I don't and didn't know many 12-15 year olds who were really responsible enough to be having sex. And lastly, there is pregnancy. How many kids are willing to give up their life to raise a baby? So, I don't think it is wrong to want to have sex, I don't think pre-marital sex is wrong, but I do think waiting until you are ready to deal with all the issues above and then some, is a good idea.
2006-09-09 05:05:09
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answered by Sterling 3
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as long as your over 18 or something have as much sex as you want. oh and use protection. but have lots and lots of sex. and with at least two different people that way you can experience more and find out what you like. but not to many people and not all people that know each other or else you will be called a slut
2006-09-09 06:21:56
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answered by mk 2
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Check your ID . If you are old enough do it ,do it with a right guy not because you want know how it feels but because you are ripe for it .And consider the problems of AIDS ,others and Pregnancy .20 years below with no good certificate is rubbish
2006-09-09 05:07:35
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answered by lit22lily 2
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speaking in college is impolite and thoughtless. that's a operating definition of various teenybopper boys. The little slugs must be despatched to detention till they detect strategies to STFU.
2016-11-25 22:06:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Nothing wrong with just thinking about sex all the time. Guys do. 8-)
2006-09-09 05:01:50
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answered by Computer Guy 7
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Oh don't worry. It happens to everybody and you are no less in any way.May be even sweeter than most others. Just do not loose hope.
2006-09-09 05:07:33
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answered by pixpaxx 2
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Get your Barbie dolls out,your too young to think about the sex thing.
YOUR GROUNDED!
2006-09-09 13:36:00
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answered by blakree 7
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thers nothing wrong its totally normal just dont rush into having sex
2006-09-09 05:11:00
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answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5
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Depends, if you're 19, and the boy is seven, then yes, it is wrong.
2006-09-09 05:01:00
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answered by Anonymous
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