Me and my friend are close we graduated from the smae high school and its been a while since we talked ...anywayz we got in contact through messenger ..and we been talking ever since.. we love talking bout our life and our problems ..and yes sometimes we talk about how we would like to get together ( for u kno what ,but not in a rude way in a soft lovin makin wayz)
so I was think if we did would he still want to talk to me after or not...and would he want me to be his gurl ? I really really like him but i dont want to loose him should I or shouldnt go throught with
it ?
Oh yea i forgot something we both are in relationship LOL
I need help plzzzzzzzz
2006-09-09 04:49:03 · 14 answers · asked by Keyshia12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to think about your situation. You current relationship, are you happy with it? If not, you need to break things off, it's not fair to either of you. If you are happy, then you probably wouldn't be thinking about hooking up with your other friend. Now, how important is this friend to you? Often times hooking up can lead to friendships being ruined, and can you handle him not wanting a relationship if you start to develop feelings for him? There are a lot of questions to think about that nobody but yourself will be able to answer for you. I hope this helps, and good luck with everything!
2006-09-09 04:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow hold on he maybe your close friend but he is not really looking out for your best interest maybe just his, you both are in a relationship what is that about cheating is cheating and as you would not like it your guy might not either also look at it as a guy point of view if you go through with it he just want to hook up every now and then used for one thing then look at your relationship as to why you are thinking of doing what you are planning to do
2006-09-09 05:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him should break up with your respective others and get to gether.
It is not like any of you (all 4) are ready for marriage.
You need more experiance with guys, I am sure.
What if you find out that he has a small penis and that you dont his actual personality.
It is okay to lose friendships. It happens. Especially with the opposite sex. Most opposite sex relationships is the guy just holding out in limbo until he gets some action.
2006-09-09 05:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it seems your not being faithful in your relationship with your bf. Second how would you like it if you found out your bf was cheating on you with one night stands....I would not do it and stick to your bf chances are your one night stand is just playing you for a fool and you can end up losing everything remember the truth always comes out.....
2006-09-09 04:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were serious about each other then you wouldn't be in other relationships. If he took you seriously then he would be persueing you more seriously. In the mean time you both are showing signs of huge disrespect to your current partners.
2006-09-09 04:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do need help. Are you out of your mind? You are both in a relationship and you will loose your friendship over it. Or you both break up with your b/f, g/f. then screw ..
2006-09-09 04:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you can't be his girl if you are both in relationships. You need to think about this, and you need to ask him about it, and you both need to decide if want to give up your relationships in order to be together for a night.
2006-09-09 04:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the sex talk and be his friend or leave you mate and get it on dont do both at the same time that would make you both cheeters and why would you want a cheeter .why would he want a cheeter .i think you think to much for eachout to f-up eachouters lives enjoy what you have dont ruin it
2006-09-09 04:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in a relationship, then u need to figure out what u want
if u r so close just ask him and tell him your worries
2006-09-09 04:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. it will ruin your relationships and the friendship. leave sex out. you can be friends and not have sex. once he has sex with you it will change you both and make things awkward. and he will stop being your friend. this happened to e
2006-09-09 04:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋