i have a girl friend who likes me and loves me the same too i also like and love her the thing is it is a silent5 liking and love what showld i do,should i propose her or do some thing else? please help me
2006-09-09 04:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by aksh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im also 14, and am a girl...
Girls love to see guys propose... make sure she really likes you... then go! propose that you like her... there are many ways to say this... if u are really shy u can tell it to her by a message (sms,email, etc), though she can interpret it as a shallow proposal... you can give her flowers with a message on it or invite her on a date then propose to her personally...you can also give her some stuff toys, the really cute and cuddly one (romantic type of girl)
2006-09-09 04:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the proposal sounds a bit premature. I always found the way to a girl's heart was through her family, so help her with her homework at her house, be real nice to her little brother and sister (like a big brother), hang out with the mom in the kitchen (call her mom), and gobble everything she cooks, and talk to her father about careers and investments. And treat grandma with kindness and respect. Cut their lawn. Paint their house. Change the oil in their car. Go on family trips with them. Play golf with the dad and carry his bag. Hang out on the couch with your gf watching wholesome TV shows. After a few years of this the entire family will propose to YOU.
2006-09-09 04:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14. Give it time, you'll meet more girls in the future. What you're feeling isn't love, it's hormonal imbalance of lust. Just go out on a date and see how things progress. Dont propose!
2006-09-09 04:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose to her ? You have a good job that can pay rent, food, and other costs ? Take a cold shower ~and give it another 5 or 6 years. You have MANY other girls to meet and go out with !
2006-09-09 04:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kaori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is way OVERRATED, at your age you are most probably feeling lust and not love. I suggest you wait till you have a secure career and the capacity to raise a family your own before you persue your "love interests"
You must be willing to live the rest your life with a woman through thick or thin even when you both are old wrinkly and sick and ugly or it is not love you are feeling.
2006-09-09 04:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and be really good friends. Take the time to build a friendship that will last and perhaps it will. Either way it is a very good preparation for marriage. You don't want a relationship that is so hot it burns out fast.
2006-09-09 04:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out.. go on dates.. have fun being together.. but you're only fourteen.. don't take things too seriously.. you're gonna meet lotsa more girls in the future.. just enjoy the time that you are already having with her right now.. and whatever happens.. keep that love..
2006-09-09 05:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by chemically reactive panic button 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being 14! Ask her out! If you love her thats the best thing to do! Don't be afraid to hide your feelings!!!!!
Best Wishes, TruEmma
2006-09-09 04:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
silent luv?u sound a lil confused,like u don't kno if ya'll goin out r not.but if u want to kno whats goin on.jus sit her down and talk to her about the situation.!
guddlucc wit dat
2006-09-09 04:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey where you live at??
i think you should ask her out...if you say she likes you and you like her beack just slowing get into the question with her....and i hope you don't have a girl friend if you do then you better then twice before asking her cause she might of thougt you didn't like her!!!
2006-09-09 04:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by dazed--and--confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋