he interpret's things i say as excuses and he doesn't understand what i'm saying. i'm trying to tell him i love him, i'm scared of needing him because i am moving to america for him, and i know in my heart after i do that i cant bear to lose him. i keep holding back a little, but i am getting further and further towards what we both want. how do i let him know i'm for real? that he has my heart and the rest of me. and i am letting him in but it's the first time EVER that i have done. i had bf's before, some really bad, but i always kept distant even though i cared. with this guy i am letting him get real real close and it's raw because i was abused. how can i tell him that because i love him so much this is why there are more issues than if i didn't care at all. because i want to give him more
2006-09-09 04:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't belong together. Unless you are only after him for your green card.
2006-09-09 04:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For him to understand you.. you have to tell him in a subtle way.. or by asking his opinion regarding your friend's situation... and be sure the situations you will describe to him is yours..if he's negative, then just keep on trying on a good timing.. You have a similar situation with my GF when we met..we know that we really love each other..but she has a problem then like yours that she cant tell me directly coz she knew that i dont like to understand it, but as time goes by, our love becoming strong, that the time she told it to me, it did not break us apart which she was very much afraid off. Of course it hurted me the time she told it to me, but love really prevail.
2006-09-09 11:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say that you've got no prize in this guy. If he doesn't understand your feelings now, it will never get any better and nine chances out of ten it will get MUCH worse. So what about an insensitive oaf is it that you love?
2006-09-09 11:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't understand feelings, they understand actions. Move to America and he'll get the picture.
2006-09-09 11:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I dont even understand the question. You just sound confused, depressed and so focused on this guy, live your own life.
2006-09-09 11:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you're giving your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it.
2006-09-09 11:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel, he might go 4 ya,if u dont tell him soon it could be too late
2006-09-09 11:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dark_moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling of de ja vu with this one
2006-09-09 11:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not know that you feel scared.
just hang in there.
2006-09-09 11:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋