Wherever i go in school my best mate follows me, even if i go to the toilet, he'll follow & just do his hair by the mirrors, & if he is asked to do an errand by the teacher he always asks for me to go along & help.
He is driving me mad, but has been a good friend so i dont want to argue with him?
what should i do?
2006-09-09 04:08:59 · 11 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He may be very insecure and needs the reassurance of someone he can rely on or, he may be gay or, he may just be a pain. Talk to him in a calm and honest way explaing how this affects you. He may not realise he is being a ****.
2006-09-09 04:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it...someone actually thinks that you are THAT great...what a wonderful thing.
I know it can be overwhelming sometimes, perhaps you can just tell him kindly," No, you don't have to come with me, I'll be right back", and if he starts to come anyway, say, "no, REALLY". He should get the hint.
2006-09-09 11:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by his girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk it through with him tell him you need a bit of space between you i'm sure he'll understand
2006-09-10 16:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick it out and accept him for who he is. As you go through life, you'll discover it's not that easy to make 'true' friends. Don't lose this one over something as insignficant as this.
Discuss, discuss, discuss. That's what friends do.
2006-09-11 07:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by J.Christie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really a best friend then, just tell him you'd like some space.
2006-09-09 11:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by predator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you class him as a best friend when you talk about him like this, he might think youre following him anyway.
2006-09-09 11:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you dont want to break up with him btu you need to have your own space. has he got any1 else he could hang rnd wiv? try introducing him to sum1 else
2006-09-10 09:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obvioiusly likes youso if iwas you id get him onvolved with more people and maybe he wont bother you as much if he has other people to go to
2006-09-09 11:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not have any confidence? or maybe he is being bullied but either way he trusts you! only you can decide why he is doing this talk to him
2006-09-12 19:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by diamonds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u need space
2006-09-09 13:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋