Im a married man or more than 10 years..i dont know why my feeling toward my wife is just a sister to me as the time goes by. Until I met a single mother woman..that we truly love each other since then a couple of years ago. He knows that Im married coz i didnt hide it from her. My wife started to notice the extra relationship with a woman now i love..but of course im always careful, and my GF so understandable.
2006-09-09 03:03:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are right, in the aspect that your wife feels like a sister to you. That is because you still love her but you are not in love with her. You need to gently break to news to your poor wife. It is not fair to her that you are having a wonderful time with your girlfriend and enjoying the fruits of a new relationship while she languishes at home, lonely, bored and neglected.
You need to give her the opportunity to find someone who will love her like you are loving your girlfriend. If you love your wife, (which I am sure you do, just not in that way) you will want the same happiness that you are experiencing now for her.
If you don't want to, are just not willing to leave your girlfriend and go back to your wife and love her like she truly deserves to be loved then set her free so that she too can have a wonderful, loving life with someone else. Do it for her [your wife], please.
2006-09-09 03:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man
And I Am 20 Years Old. I Been Messing Around With Him
Since Last September 2005. He Has A Son Who Is 20 And
He Is My Friend And A Daughter Who Is 17 And His
Daughter Caught Us Having Sex Once Before But She
Did Not Say Nothing To Nobody Because She Has Autistic
And She Has A Mind Of A 6 Year Old. This Married Man
Wants To Leave His Wife And Marry Me... But I Do Not
Know If He Will Leave His Wife Of 21 Years! The Sex
Is Good And He Always Said I Love You To Me All The
Time And I Do Not Know What To Do. But I Love Him!
We Never Use Protection But He Pulls Out And
Ejaculate On My Stomach! We Have Had Sex In Werid
Places! Nobody Knows About This Relationship And He
Plans On Getting A Divorced From His Wife When His
Daughter Turns 18! He Already Asked His Wife For A
Divorce But She Say Things Will Work Out And He Thinks
Things Won't Work Out! This Relationship Between Me
And Him Started When I Went Over There And Fixed His
Computer And I Saw Porn On His Computer And Then I Ask
Him About It On-Line And He Said It Was His And We
Started Messing Around And Other Stuff!!! His Wife
Is Going To Court In September To Gain Full Rights
Over Their Daughter!!!!!
What Would You Do?
2006-09-09 13:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by ~Metalman Princess~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is called CHEATING!!! It is selfish and WRONG!!! If you care about your wife BUT you DON'T love her THEN you NEED to END your marrige.
Give your wife (who you say you care about!) a chance to find someone who loves and appreiciates her. Wouldn't you want that for your sister??? Yeah it would hurt her but in the long run she would be better off.
Stop being selfish and let BOTH of you move on with your lives.
2006-09-09 03:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....you should be honest with your wife so that she can make the decision to end the relationship with you and move on with her life. It is not fair to her if you don't tell her. You are suppose to love her and respect her, even if you are no longer "in love" with her. You can't help your feelings but you can make a decision to be honest about your feelings. Don't be selfish, it will come back to haunt you.
2006-09-09 03:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to stop leading your wife on, decide what you really want, then go for it. But be upfront about it. Never hide things from anyone, it only makes things worse in the end.
2006-09-09 03:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going to not be a harsh as you need "bites tongue" get a divorce move out stop being a cheating slug. You should have never had a gf in secret to be asking if you have to still keep her secret if you were unhappy you work it out or leave then find someone to move on with your BACKWARDS AND WRONG.
2006-09-09 03:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to call an attorney! She is gonna take you to the cleaners when you get divorced! I hope the P u s s y was worth it! Or you could just be a snake and keep hiding it from her....
2006-09-09 03:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acts of betrayal is what your doing. And since betrayal is at the core dishonest, no relationship with it in the background can ever turn out well.
2006-09-09 03:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, your wife needs to leave you. how can you string two females along? and if your wife leaves you or you leave her and then you go to girlfriend how can you and her trust each other? me i just don't get it. there is no way you and your girlfriend will have a good relationship with each other.
2006-09-09 13:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask your girlfriend if she wants to be with you without your wife. eventually it will probably have to be like this. your wife is no longer your love, i was in a similar thing and i didn't want to lose my bf more than anything. i thought something would happen that would make me lose him. but something happened that made me lose my husband instead. i was much happier. no lying, no sneaking, just loving.
2006-09-09 03:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋