Im just so beautiful. People must hate me for my looks. At least I have my close friends that don't hate me. But those people that do hate me, Im just so beautiful I can't help it if there jealous of me. I find it's the public school girls who are jealous of me, most likely because of my looks and because I go to one of the most prestigious Private Catholic high schools in North Carolina. Some people just need to accept that there ugly and im not. Don't you agree?
2006-09-09 02:54:58 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There's nothing wrong with beauty. If a person is ugly then they can get plastic surgeory. But I don't need that, so perhaps those other girls should realise there the ones who need plastic surgeory, and if they cannot afford it than that's not my fault. It's there fat mothers fault who works at Burger King.
2006-09-09 03:01:34 · update #1
Maybe you are hated because you are just too damn arrogant and self centred for your own good. You are too vain.
I am actually quite beautiful too and have won several beauty pagents when I was younger. However, unlike you, I don't flaunt my beauty. I prefer people to like me because I am actually also quite kind, considerate and intelligent. I have a big heart and I have never spoken disparagingly (is that too big a word for you?) about anyone else.
You mention plastic surgery. Too bad there isn't surgery for a personality transplant. If there was, I'd suggest you get first in line for it and ask for a more compassionate, understanding, less shallow and vain personality because with the one you currently have, you are UGLY. I don't like you simply because of your arrogance and not your looks as you seem to imply.
JUST REMEMBER, BEAUTY FADES BUT STUPID IS FOREVER - Judge Judy
2006-09-09 03:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all people hate you that's not mean you are so beautiful.Because lot of women prettier than you in North Carolina , USA & Whole world. So don't dream like that.
I did read the answers you got from other people for your comment about your self . Those seems they also hate you who don't even see you in their life before. Accroding that you should understand people why hate you. Because it's not about your beauty or look. It's about your behavior , the way of talking to other people , The manner of communicating with people are not belong to a nice and polite humanbeing. If you change your habbit in goodway people start to like you as soon as possible.Good Luck!!
2006-09-09 03:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I think it's because you may be ugly - inside. If you're so obsessed with your looks, then that's the first thing that you present to others, not yourself, so others don't get to see the real you. Some people see through the looks and realize how shallow you are and don't like it - that's why they hate you, not because you're beautiful. I've seen lots of perfect eggs, not a flaw on the outside, but when you crack it and see the inside, it's rotten.
Toodles
2006-09-09 03:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by MarQus1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" -- in your case, maybe it is just that you are beautiful in your own eyes (or when you look in a mirror).
Maybe other girls might hate you for your looks if you had great looks.
Likely most people would just be "turned off" by your thinking you are "so beautiful"; because of what you think are your "looks". And of your sickening pride and your flaunting of it ("I go to one of the most pestigious Private Catholic high schools in North Carolina").
Most people are more concerned about what is "within" a person rather than just how "beautiful" they are ... and remember, beauty is just skin-deep,
If you truly are "beautiful" then maybe you "can't help it", but you could use it to your advantage rather than to repulse people.
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also you say:
There's nothing wrong with beauty. If a person is ugly then they can get plastic surgeory. But I don't need that, so perhaps those other girls should realise there the ones who need plastic surgeory, and if they cannot afford it than that's not my fault. It's there fat mothers fault who works at Burger King.
It seems your problem is not your "beauty" or your lack of it! More, it is your "attitude" (and that sure needs adjusting!!). You say a person can get plastic surgery... their fat mothers work at Burger King. Plastic Surgery can be expensive, does Burger King pay such fantastic wages?
And you say they are the ones who need it, if they can't afford it, it's not your fault. If people hate you, it might not be because of your skin-deep beauty; it might be because of your attitude, your lack of compassion for others, etc., etc., yada, yada, yada. Be careful if you go out in the rain, you seem so stuck-up that the rain might run down in your nose.
2006-09-09 03:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that people hate you because you look beautiful? Or is it because you are rich and spoilt? You sound like a girl who will cry, "daddy! mommy!" there's a spider in my room! Ahahaha! Kidding, don't take it serious. You might look beautiful, but I doubt you have inner beauty.
2006-09-09 17:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ ON AND BE ENLIGHTENED:
While grandiosity is the diagnostic hallmark of pathological narcissism, there is research evidence that pathological narcissism occurs in two forms, (a) a grandiose state of mind in young adults that can be corrected by life experiences, and (b) the stable disorder described in DSM-IV, which is defined less by grandiosity than by severely disturbed interpersonal relations.
The preferred theory seems to be that narcissism is caused by very early affective deprivation, yet the clinical material tends to describe narcissists as unwilling rather than unable, thus treating narcissistic behaviors as volitional -- that is, narcissism is termed a personality disorder, but it tends to be discussed as a character disorder. This distinction is important to prognosis and treatment possibilities. If NPD is caused by infantile damage and consequent developmental short-circuits, it probably represents an irremediable condition. On the other hand, if narcissism is a behavior pattern that's learned, then there is some hope, however tenuous, that it's a behavior pattern that can be unlearned
2006-09-09 03:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when i first read your question, i was going to say that other girls are jealous because you have something that they dont(i.e. looks). but once i read the details of your question, i realized that all the other girls dont like you because you lord your beauty over them. i agree that you cant help who you are, but neither can they. from what you have written, it sounds like you turn your nose up at anyone who is not a "beautiful person". try accepting people for who they are, instead of how they look. also, beauty doesnt last forever. it doesnt buy you happiness. i am not a "beautiful person", but i have a wonderful husband and family. im sad for you. when you get old and ugly you wont know what to do. i cant wait for you to come off your pedestal and join the rest of the world.
2006-09-09 03:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by lady beth 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why do people hate you? why do fish live in water? why is the sky blue? The question I have for you is Why are you such a conceited pompous ***? Have you ever seen the movie Shallow Hal? why are you so blind that you can't see that you a conceited ignoramus asshole? sorry t insult you but there is a song and I thing it states a truth it goes "EVERY THING IS BEAUTIFUL IN IT'S OWN WAY" anyone THAT FEELS THAT THEY ARE THE BEST JUDGE OF THEIR APPEARANCE IS VERY BADLY MISTAKEN
2006-09-09 03:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bob S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty is only skin deep but your attitude proves that UGLY goes clean to the bone. Might want to work on your people skills or you'll end up a cranky old hag addicted to your mirror and VERY lonely, because that beauty you're so proud of will NOT last.
2006-09-09 03:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by crale70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. beauty is skin deep. beauty is on the inside. Mother Theresa was beautiful and no one was jealous of her. Perhaps they see your confidence in the superficial aspect of your life, as pride and arrogance, which are not truly or deeply beautiful traits. In Gods eyes, being humble reaps rewards because it is more deeply beautiful. Looking great and being blessed with beauty can be very nice, but remember, you are not the only outwardly beautiful girl in the world there are plenty. People dont judge others based on looks alone, if that were the case you would see more of the type of a beautiful woman who when she opened her mouth she became "just ugly honey", married to more succesful inteligent men, or successful in their own lives or careers, youll notice those type of beautiful women usually end up in a trailor.
2006-09-09 03:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by really? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋