okay so my ex broke up wtih me yesterday.
and hooked up with another gurl.
and hes the player type but hes my first love and i was his && we lost our virg. to each other.
can i make him jealous and him wanting me back by going out with guy friends . like just chillin with them.??
if not . give me some advice on what would make u jealous
2006-09-09 01:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by ily_______&?; 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try 2 befriend his current GF.Then hang out with her now n then so dat ur ex comes 2 know abt it.Then slowly make ur ex assume dat ur spilling out his beans 2 his GF.I bet u he'll b red in his face n will b jealous of u like anything
2006-09-09 02:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by jk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really love u he will get jealous, but if he dun he will not be bother at all. and u will get affected even more. if u go out wif his frz, n u guy get back together, will he mind or harbour any ill intention?? so feel tat u get on wif ur life n find someone better than him. nowadays virg is really nothing if someone like u he wont bother whether u r or not.
u r still young lady, be in love more n break more heart to learn how curel tis world of love is.. hee.. hope u can get over soon. CHEERS!!!
2006-09-09 08:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put my chin up, totally ignore him, and go where I could have fun or pursue my hobbies and meet other guys. If he is a player, in this age of STD, I would not want him back.
He would be more likely to come back if you totally ignore him, than if you go out with the same group, but hang on other guys. He may see you as a "player" then.
There was a poem - I can't quote exactly - "If you love something, set it free. If it is yours, it will return to you." Set him free, and don't look back.
2006-09-09 08:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it was me, seeing you with another guy would make me jelous, but if he is the player type it might not work. apearantly he works fast if he already has another girl. personaly i say move on, i know it sounds harsh but if he left you yesterday and is with another girl already there might not be any hope of getting him back. besides, why would you want someone thats a player? how long were you two together?
i dont know if any of this will help but good luck
2006-09-09 08:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by lheitjan_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head high and don't give him the satisfaction of appearing you care by attemping to make him jealous. Cut all contact if you can and he will be able to have a good long think about what he has lost. He may not admit it but if he ever cared, it will hurt.
2006-09-09 08:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by venusinfurs2832 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me it never works. if you start flirting with ur exs friends or be all over guys when hes around etc, that will make him dislike u more and more and be relieved that he broke up with you.
so what you have to do is appear normal, as if nothing is wrong. like u dont give a s*** that u guys have broken up. have fun with your friends, laugh a lot and appear to have a good time (even if your not, but dont over do it)
and if he comes up to talk to u, be NORMAL, answer him back but dont keep it going. this will drive him crazy, u seeming normal and acting happy....seriously, it always works
2006-09-09 08:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you do that then it might get someone really hurt weather it is physically or mentally if it is meant to be just try to work thing out and give each other space making some one jealous is not the answer
2006-09-09 08:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by worriedmoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the jealous thing is way too puerile, it can only lead to trouble, find another guy chalk it up to a life learning experience, and find another guy they are all basically the same no one is that special that you would need to put up with a liar and a cheat, and you are way hot anyway.
2006-09-09 08:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, especially if he is a player....lord knows what he might have picked up that you don't want
2006-09-09 08:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on get a llife chill just go for the other fish
2006-09-09 08:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Blue_Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋