Say, you are a 14-year-old girl and you have a classmate, a boy who often offers his help. He always (well, almost) helps you and tries to show that he cares for you. He looks at you often. He talks/sms to you in such a mature and loving way. He is one of the brightest and most dilligent students in the class. Would you fall in love with him? If yes, why? If no, why?
2006-09-09 01:32:48 · 18 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No-one can tell you. You fall in love with someone, not because of how clever they are, or indeed whether they care for you, but because you cannot bear to be apart from them, your stomach flips when they walk into a room, it is something indefinable.
Having said all of that, just get to know him as a friend and maybe one day you will wake up and realise you are in love. If not, then just remain good friends.
2006-09-09 01:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ros H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 years old you are to young to fall in love. You could have a relationship with him, dating and such.
2006-09-09 08:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is such a strong emotion. Maybe you are just infatuated with him at the point. Love is something that takes time to achieve.
2006-09-09 08:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No falling in love before the age of 17. It is a new federal law the senate just passed.
YOu are allowed to like him though and go roller skating or to a movie.
2006-09-09 08:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess I would experience "puppy love". To be on the safe side, I would have him as just a real good friend. 14 is still too young to be getting into a serious love relationship.
2006-09-09 08:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14. Harmones have started playing. Dont fall prey to your harmonal surge. Life is more than coochy-cooing with a boy at 14.
You have much better things to do now.
2006-09-09 08:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about love and concentrate on yous schooling.Anyway just by asking this question it says that you do not love him. You are overwhelmed by his kindness and helpfulness.
He seems to be a very good friend. Don't spoil the friendship with your so - called love for him.
2006-09-09 08:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No -
I think someone is pushing too many wrong buttons, someone wants to possess the girl, making her feel very unsettled.
You cannot make a person fall in love!!!
2006-09-09 08:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
s u can but not now
u can be v good friends
falling in love Q canot be asked it just happens
ur ideas may change when u become 18
don't spoil ur mind
2006-09-09 08:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, he is trying himself to catch a way to love you.
so, you need to see him more before taking any
decision.
Remember , love is not a toy for play with.
And try not to involve in a sexual relation.
May be he is dangerous and tries to fell you in a
danger.
2006-09-09 09:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by sabet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋