Im 39 year old woman who is only child and cannot find a good person to live with and have kids my parents are old and ill and I fell very sad because i will find myself alone in a few years
2006-09-09 01:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't count your chickens before they hatch!
Having a positive outlook will increase your chances tenfold so cheer up!
2006-09-09 01:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,Maria,
I am sorry to hear that your parents are ill, but they would not want you to be unhappy.
You must stop feeling sad, because this will show in your face and the way you act, and nobody likes someone who looks miserable all the time.
Cheer up, smile a lot, go out and meet new people- maybe start doing something that interests you,or something you've always wanted to try. Then you will meet people who like the same things as you. I'm sure you will find somebody soon.
Anyway, with a name like Maria I'm sure you're a very pretty young 39 year old.
Good luck,and cheer up!
Love,
Misterviv xx
2006-09-12 10:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by misterviv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned the worst thing an only child can do is think of herself one-dimensionally. Find your talents and your desires, get out in the world, get a pet. When you are happier with your life, things might fall into place.
I'm sorry your parents aren't doing well, but the best gift you can give them is to be the best person you can be--and that won't happen if you're living your life only through them.
2006-09-09 01:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wander Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite sure about the relevance of being an only child. What's that got to do with being unable to find a partner? Join a singles club and have yourself some fun ;-)
2006-09-09 01:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem so focused on the negative things the amount of time you spend worrying about the love you wont find, you could be living life and learning to love yourself, and being your own person, worrying this way is allowing life to pass you by, get a grip, and start learning about who you are as a person.
2006-09-09 01:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you having problems with men?
watch some kamasutra, learn how it's done, it's very important
then take care of yourself, exercise regulary, eat healthy
of course, don't forget relatioships polarity, if you are truly a women you want to expect a strong but sensitive men, but if you're the men you might as well find yourself a p.u.s.s.y.
so most important of all, let go of yourself, and when you are with the men you're interested in, make yourself difficult for a while and then just take his pants off and suck his dick good, and let the fun begin maybe, this is my perspectiv as a men, does this seem good to you?
if it doesn't, you can listen to some of the work of Anthony Robbins, he will help you, i guarantee!
2006-09-09 01:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking too hard.If someone comes along,then fine,but if they don't,then it's not the end of the world.If you want kids,then foster or adopt. Find some good friends to share your life with
2006-09-09 01:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even like yourself how do you expect someone else to??
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, get a life of your own & be happy that way- then love will find you naturally.
2006-09-09 01:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres someone out there for everyone, stop trying so hard and it might just happen when you least expect it, good luck.
2006-09-09 01:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your trying to hard. you need to just chill out and stop worrying make new friends and get out as much as possible the more you go looking for things the harder it is. just enjoy life.
2006-09-09 01:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋