sex very rarely,no partnership
2006-09-09 00:57:51 · 6 answers · asked by secretone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Boredom?? Some people get into the "comfortable" mode where they just kind of co-exist with each other. It is your responsibility to try to get out of this rut you are in. Remember back to a time when you two had fun and laughed and had sex. Try doing whatever it was that made you happy and attracted to this person to begin with. When you start making changes yourself, mostly likely your partner will start as well. Good luck!
2006-09-09 01:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you are bored, why aren't you doing something to bring some spice back into your marriage? boredom is caused by laziness on both sides to do nothing to improve things. perhaps if you make an effort to enliven your marriage, he will respond. obviously, there needs to be some communication improvements to discover why you feel this way and make him aware of it too. you only get out of a marriage what you are willing to put into it. if you leave now due to boredom, your next marriage will end the same way ... it is not your spouses job to entertain you. a marriage is a partnership. stop being a silent partner and talk to him about your feelings and ask him for suggestions to get back on track as well as offering a few of your own
2006-09-09 01:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you are already talking about when to leave you're half way gone.Next I hate the phrase boredom,it implies that your husband should be entertaining you.It is up to both of you to "spice"things up,you get out of marriage what you put in.Try surprising him by being nude when he gets home from work etc..And finally why did you marry him in the first place,what were you attracted to?Find that old feeling and rekindle it,marriage is work and if you aren't willing to put in the time,you will be bored.
2006-09-09 01:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk with your partner. be honest about your feelings. tell him what you want. change your daily routine.
i cant believe this. boredom?!? no wonder marriages dont work. people dont even try to make it work! why get married in the first place?
2006-09-09 01:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by theNthEreWasyOu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrage is mutual understanding between two here sex is important factor the supress of sex is the main problum. is not bouring enjoy the sorrow & joy equally
2006-09-09 01:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by ramsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy and have tried everything to make it work, then it maybe time to leave.
2006-09-09 02:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋