2006-09-09 00:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by troubled_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you that insecure that virginity is important. If she marries you after being intimate with another it is a sign you are better.
I felt more comfortable knowing that she had someone to compare to. The emphasis on virginity comes from the attitude that women are property and somehow damaged if not "pure" There is also the issue of inheritance. Again religion is about power and property not redemption.Virginity is highly overrated.
2006-09-09 02:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her past is exactly that, her past. Or are you claiming its ok for you to have slept around but not her. If so thats a bit of a double standard.
Your marrying her because you love her and want to spend the rest of your lives together. What went on before you to met has nothing to do with it.
Get a grip and marry the woman you love
2006-09-09 08:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question ... if he knows and is still marrying you, then he is comfortable enough with it as long as he is the last person you ever sleep with
2006-09-09 08:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean your woman slept with someone after you met you? If so, that might be a problem.
2006-09-09 09:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you - man or woman there will always be someone that they've slept with before you. Why would anyone one want an inexperienced virgin?
2006-09-09 08:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in the past stays in the past. I could care less if my wife got gang-banged by 800 dudes before we met.
Who gives a shlt. Just concentrate on the future.
2006-09-09 08:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a past that cant be changed you can only look into the future and see what direction to head.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-09 09:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only slept with one? I call that the flower of innocence!
2006-09-09 08:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't matter to me but i'm already married. If you're having doubts don't marry her.
2006-09-09 09:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter, who she has been with as long as we love and respect each other.
2006-09-09 08:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋