I have another friend. Much worse. Every time I can't do something with her, she freaks out. She says she hates me and then she swears. She's so violent she needs counseling. And whatever you tell her parents, they don't do ANYTHING!!!!! EVER!!!!!!! I swear, she's the devil. EVERYONE at school knows that. She's mean to everyone.
You're probably going to say "Don't hang around with her", but I can't. She'll have another stupid hissy-fit. If T sees this, she knows EXACTLY who I'm talking about.
All she talks about is sex and swearing. I know she gets this from her parents. I could go on for a year telling you all she did. She always leaves people out from anything, and she'll be mean about it too....
SO HELP!!! I'VE BEEN ASKING FOR YEARS, NO ONE GIVES A GOOD ANSWER, THIS IS MY FINAL CHOICE!!! WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????
2006-09-09 00:46:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Jen: Why do you say I need help...?
2006-09-09 00:56:12 · update #1
I mean proffesional help...
2006-09-09 00:56:37 · update #2
i know you`ve heard this probably before,if you continue to hang with this type of person or persons you will become just like them, it can really rub off to you.theirs a thing called downstroking. it`s this. anything bad she says, contradict it with something positive.ex- look at her shirt, it is soo ugly!- (you say something positive), i think the colors are cool-get it.this will drive her completely crazy. this is a real learning opportunity for you.it`s like reverse physiology. kill em with kindness.be nice or smile to the people she`s mean too, cause you`re gonna need new friends. people like this ,you have to kill with kindness
2006-09-09 01:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hundred of good answers, the problem is you don't want to hear them, this is your choice, you either hang out with her and keep your trap shut and accept her for what she is, or you shut her out, let she have her fit. if you don't make a choice now you will end up like her, remember you are judge by the friend you keep.
2006-09-09 00:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! The only way for you is to GRADUALLY move apart. Dont be abrupt, but slowly start growing apart.
If the vacuum you leave behind will be filled by someone else, she will never be a problem for you...
2006-09-09 00:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ameya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't much you can do. If you don't wanna talk about sex be random and just start talking about something totally different or take a trip down memory lane with her. If shes starts bitching about people say please dont ***** about them infront of me as there my friends and she should stop. I understand what you say about not being able to stop being her friend but you can slowly distance yourself from her it will take time as youl have to do it very slowly for her not to notice as much.
good luck
xXx Charlie xXx
2006-09-09 00:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away....you cannot possibly be friends with someone you consider to be evil! if she has a hissy fit - call the cops! get a restraining order - get her out of your life!
2006-09-09 00:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by firenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
, you have be around her for years, you must like it, When you grow up, you will know what to do. Littie Girl.
2006-09-09 00:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both need to grow up!
2006-09-09 00:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by tnjunglejane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do nothing about it...she is sick...she needs professional help....all you can do is to take her to a psychiatrist....and don't you need one also?
2006-09-09 00:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by hanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a Dr. you can only help yourself...
2006-09-09 01:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by TT Bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Huni... u described ur friend very well.
but what is ur question?
2006-09-09 00:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋