I feel my man is cheating on me. whenever he recieves calls he either switches of the phone moves away to answer particular calls.
late i check his phone in his absence and find out that the person who was calling is a lady who calls him everyday i feel hurt broken coz after recieving these calls he leaves home and comes back late in the night
2006-09-09 00:39:58 · 13 answers · asked by Halicate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hurts like hell!!! I know. Start preparing yourself for an exit. Start by calling that number. Usually when you confront the other person, they are willing to tell you what you need to know. Especially if they are really into this guy. Also, she may not know about you. Don't be surprised. Have you asked him about this? Start investigating. Because if he is playing you, you need to protect yourself. I kicked my husband to the curb, he was risking our marriage for an affair and he lost. You don't want one day to wake up with an STD or something. I know it's going to hurt, but you have to get to the bottom of this. Hopefully you are not married. It will make it easier to move on.
2006-09-09 02:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun,
Its normal for you to doubt on your hubby as u said he gets calls from a lady and on a daily basis he leaves home whenever he recieves this call!! But without having full knowledge about this lady and the relaiton they both share dont take any step which you would regret afterwards.. u can hire a detective there and they might be able to help you with your situation, and if ur hubby is guilty its going to be on u how u wanna go abt it.. if he promises to leave this lady then you shd forgive him if possible!! But if you feel he is nomore your hubby or lover.. just break this relation!! Its going to be very difficult for you to take any decision.. so be careful in whatever step you take.
Good luck
Deep
2006-09-09 08:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, a woman's intuition is pretty spot on. Yes, this may be a cheating man, but just confront him. do not put it off. Is your man have a mental issue? I'm serious. Sometimes, a mental disorder will crimple reality and facts in a mind. But, before you conclude that he is lacking in fidelity, confront him and get this mess out in the open. Tell him exactly how you feel. Call this girl up and just ask her. Plus, you might want to go to the Dr. and have yourself checked. If he is cheating on you, he might be stupid enough to have unprotected sex. Men will wander. It is the facts. Even men who have found their soul mate will still look at a hot body and wonder how it would feel to be with her. But, bottom line is this...confront this and get it out into the open. Good luck and i do believe i will say that i'm sorry you have to go through this.
2006-09-09 07:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are right about his cheating. if you do nothing, you are enabling him to continue cheating. i would ask him why and suggest counseling ... if he refuses, then decide if you want to stay with a cheater or move on with your life. at some point in time, he will leave you over this, so you are better off ending the relationship now for your own mental health and welfare.
2006-09-09 07:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta leave. If a man can't make a call with you in the room there is something wrong.
2006-09-09 07:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by mustlovefur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are probably right,sorry to say.Confront him you have the right to know whats going on,if he hesitates when asked hes definitely hiding something.If you decide not to per sue the issue its only going to eat away at you which could cause you to become ill.Do whats right for you.Good luck !
2006-09-09 08:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not justifying your man's behaviour. But have you ever thought about what he is not getting at home that he seeks outside? may be something you could do right now to change whats happening!
2006-09-09 07:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he has someone new, best to get out of the situation and start over.
2006-09-09 09:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple....Leave him..enough said....It is not possible that he leaves everytime and came back only late at night to ermmmm see his sisters or momma or aunts or friendly old neighbor......
2006-09-09 07:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell'em that u feel that ,,
and that u trust ur feelings..
and u r sure that he's cheating on ya..and don wanna loose him at the same time
but if he kept cheating and didn respect ya...
then am soooooo sorry to say that the solution is (DIVORCE)
2006-09-09 07:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by the 6th knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋