up with the girl that he has be friends/lovers with for the past 10 years and now he's in a relationship with me. I''ve known him since I was 10 yrs old. not consistantly. we would see eachother periodically through out the years. but we were never intimate. then about 2 years ago I got my chance we became sex buddies, I felt he was falling for me. but he still had his ex in the pic. I got pregnant during this period. I decided to keep the baby due to my past. He even got a paternity test because he thought i was a hoe. b/c of my past i was a stripper-escourt-massage attendant to mother. He decided to work it out with his girlfriend from the time he found out i was pregnant however she couldn't handle it and they just recently broke up. and now he's with me because he want to do whats best for our child. He never wanted to be with me b 4 & during and after the baby. I no he love his child. I love him but i'm not so sure he really loves me. he doesn't talk to her anymore. but we r a fam
2006-09-09 00:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by we r family? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just because you have a child doesn't mean you have to be together. You can still be great parents but apart. It sounds like he's only with you because of your child. Talk to him, find out what he's feeling and tell him how you feel. To be the mother of his child, you shouldn't be feeling this way! Good Luck!
2006-09-09 00:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by denise r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ! Sounds like you have issues to deal with.My suggestion would be deal with your issues maybe with some counseling, get your life straightened out and begin a new life with your child. Time and patients will heal all wounds and I'm sure a new man will come into your life.Good Luck
2006-09-09 01:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by javajoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broke or not how do you know? If you are sure get yourself confirmed by that man than go ahead no harm. But be careful know the reason for the breakup , whose fault ? if the man, he can do the same with you too. So know him well do not put yourself in trouble. Know him well first.
2006-09-09 00:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by motherofgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who substitute into divorced and had 3 women. He substitute into nevertheless soooo in love along with his ex. I hung around hoping he would see that I made sacrifices to stay with him and e would initiate loving me extra. in basic terms a twelve months when I moved around the rustic did he comprehend this. whether as quickly as we did communicate on the telephone, he continually mentioned "her", he merely could no longer enable pass! it relatively is gloomy.
2016-09-30 12:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the boot.
It sounds like a soap opera. Time to get rid of the suds, honey.
2006-09-09 00:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You accepted him so give him time to heal until he get over with the girl. Time heals everything.
2006-09-09 00:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by hanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, just a friendly advice, don't be too worried about your bf, after all, he loves you for he did broke up with his ex...ryt?well, you just need to care and love him intensely...
2006-09-09 00:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your insecure. Get over it. Move on...................
2006-09-09 00:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋