By that i mean.....what draws you to a person, or causes you to become attracted to them?
2006-09-09 00:00:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
personality, even if you dont think someone is fantastic looking the better there personality the better looking the seem to become. or maybe its just me?
2006-09-10 05:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by danni.k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that people are attracted to each other on more than just the superficial visual level. If all the world is your mirror we always pick people you mirror ourselves perfectly - reflecting both the good and the bad and the reason for 'relationship' is to own the good stuff in the other and also the 'bad'. This is so that we are brought to wholeness instead of being one half of two! Relationships are not about what we can get 'out' of them, but what we 'put' into them. The secret seems to be that we are whole and perfect that way we are and this is how remind ourselves of that. The 'bad' stuff when looked at and accepted by ourselves (because what we see in another is only what we dont want to look at in ourselves) is really just an illusion anyway and 'bad' doesn't really exist - just bad lies we tell ourselves about who we think we are.
Soooo after all that I think who we are attracted to is always perfect. The success of a relationship doesnt depend on how long it lasts, but whether it does the job of waking us up to the bits of ourselves that we are not loving at any particular time. I think this is why it looks like we all go out with different people, but that they can have similar trates and follow similar patterns which can drive us mad!
Hope this inspires you in some way - only from 'for what its worth department'.
2006-09-09 07:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially looks, then personality. Looks-wise, I like kind eyes and sweet smiles. I also think a great sense of humour (someone who can keep you laughing and feeling good) and an ability to bring out the best qualities in me is very attractive in a person.
2006-09-09 07:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First impressions..
Looks is the first thing.
Respecting you is the second.
I only say looks because that's what you first see about the person. You see them before you talk to them.. if you meet them in person that is, I guess.
This doesn't necessarily mean if I'm not physically attracted to them I won't talk to them, it's just the first thing that you see about a person most of the time.
2006-09-09 12:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by cassie.ghoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, it's the way they look, if they're good-looking, clean-looking, dressed attractively. Then, when I talk to them, if I get a good vibe from them that would attract me more. If they were funny, smart, caring or just a good listener. Then from there, if I felt they were genuinely interested in me, that would make me feel very attracted to them.
2006-09-09 07:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologists say the two most important things are Confidence and eyes (as in having large eyes which convey a look of innocence)
2006-09-09 07:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by zeem3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His personality in all the extension of the word, hi has to be smart, funny, cute for me, the way he act and so many other things... Good Luck.
2006-09-09 07:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tzaitel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks most of the time but mostly the person behind those looks.
2006-09-09 08:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by steffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling, and positive body language will always bring out your best side. I think those that have sparkly personalities just shine through.
2006-09-09 07:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sara P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly a good sense of humour as well as decent looks!!
I love a man that can make me laugh but can also laugh at themselves and not take themselves to seriously.
2006-09-09 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋