well, I am a asian living USA. Today I went school, go to my math class. sometime was quiet sometime was louldly. In we group had 4 students. 2 girls 2 guys. 3 students are american. last one was asian. That was me. that 2 girls was very good to talk. I wanted talk to them. But I can't speaking good english. that guy was very quiet too. such as me. He saids, he doesn't like school. But I do.
That girls started talked to him. He doesn't like to talk. So, he saids," Why don't you talk to him(me)?" I don't remember what they said.
since I am asian people. so they don't like to talk to me?
2006-09-08 22:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
probably because they don't ubderstand you.... work on your language....
2006-09-08 22:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately lad some Americans NOT ALL, C Asians as a Threat, because they have ties 2 terrorism & take their religion 2 far 2 seriously.
MayB they think UR struggling with English & they don't want 2 make U uncomfortable.
They'll get 2 know U give it time.
U just B UR normal happy self & wait 4 them 2 get over their ( sometimes irrational ) fears.
2006-09-09 06:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to take an English class. I'm sure it would help you socialize! You must be assured that you are WONDERFUL, and we are all on equal footing and created by God. I used to be extremely shy. Becoming a waitress really brought me out of my shell. I have friends of MANY different nationalities. We may all be different, but we really are ALL THE SAME! Just work on your English! It looks like you're well on your way. To help yourself----stop smoking (if you do)! My husband and I can't stand & talk with smokers---it really bothers us! (the nasty smell, & the awful way it really HARMS people!) Asians are just fine with me!! (ESPECIALLY love Vietnamese food) Particularly if they try to INTEGRATE into American society! Smile & be friendly! So GLAD you enjoy school!! Keep up the good work!
2006-09-09 06:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by sjs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately your statement is not true. The first few days of school is awkward for everybody. The whole situation is new and strange for all. Don't feel that way. Give it time. Just be yourself, smile and offer a warm personality. Eventually things will improve as each of you feel more comfortable, begin to relax and get to know each other better. Who knows....you may find a "best friend" whom you may come to like very much.
2006-09-09 06:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids in American today are socially inferior because of the current money trend. No one has it. Therefore most kids aren't making friends these days because they have no money to do anything. They are over stressed by their parents constantly reminding them of the ever increasing price of houses that they won't be able to afford in the future, so the kids are growing impotent socially. Besides other factors having nothing to do with you on a personal level. So I wouldn't worry about it. If I were you and wanted to make friends, I would just open my mouth and say whatever I wanted to say. Race has little to do with your odds of making new friends.
2006-09-09 06:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
school girls only want to talk to each other, usually about boys. school boys are quiet because they are stupid and don't know the answer.
when a US teacher says "lets do group work," that means huddle together and give me some peace. they don't actually expect the groups to do anything.
2006-09-09 05:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know i think the truth here is this
asian men are smart most of them men feel threatened by them
american women dont like asian men because they have small weiners matter of fact asian then mexican are considered small weiners
As far as asian women men love love love to talk to them they find them sexy even if they are flat chested i dont know why i do but i do
2006-09-09 05:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to do but i knew 2 people that came from china to my school and they had friends (i was one of them) they werent brilliant at english either,. i think u need to open out a bit more. dont be shy to speak
2006-09-09 05:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by HJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is Asian and she talks to me all the time.
2006-09-09 07:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Americans like to talk to Asian !!!!!!
2006-09-09 05:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jurysca S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your in america so get use to some racism towards asians.
2006-09-09 06:11:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋