my husband is looking at porn?

Question

last night i caught my husband looking at porn on the internet. He thought i was sleeping. Every time i move he close out the window. Should i be worried? He then came to bed and an hour later wanted sex. Yes i do give it up alllot

Answer 1

You like sex too and enjoy being with him. So why dont you both have fun on internet together and then on bed together. I tell you both of you will enjoy it to a great. You can also discuss with him abt what you saw on net . That will indicate wat you like him to do with you which he has not done till now when on bed. Both of you will come to know differnt new ways how to give and take in a better way on bed

Answer 2

Didn't u just say he had sex with u afterwards? So what's the problem? A lot of men do this...including my husband and I either join him or let him be but if this bothers u so much then have a talk with him about it. Just don't be surprised when u find out he's still doing it behind your back even though he tells u he isn't.

Answer 3

I think it is a problem if your hiding it, there should be no secrets in a marriage unless its for a surprise party!
If you two enjoyed the porn together, that would be a different story.
Why don't you go to the porn site, or lime wire and down load something for a "steamy" night for the two of you.

Answer 4

The fact that your husband was looking at porn means he is a male, nothing else. There are 2 types of men; those who enjoy looking at porn and those who look at porn and deny it. I look at it with my husband.

Answer 5

Dear lady you must be celebrating in place of complaining , if he is active in bed and remain romantic with you forever . If you want to live happily and home is full of fun , then readjust your thinking also . You should pat your back that he is your man and after seeing p/ movie , try something new .
If you want to live in depression , continue nagging / complaining / do not allow him to be in peace , don't feed him well , easy way to live in pain .

Answer 6

I think you need to talk about it, and what your limits are on the types of porn that is acceptable. Just be open about it, and yes, screw each other's brains out. That's my opinion.

Answer 7

a man lookin at porn on the computer?its normal,hell jus a few hours i was doin it.be happy that he is lookin at porn instead off of a new wife.

Answer 8

Explain to him how bad it hurts you. Let him know that it is CHEATING. If he is not proud to look at that junk in front of you or his parents or a pastor then that explains how it is Cheating. I also went through this. I caught my husband several times until he finally realized how bad it breaks my heart to know that he rather look at someone else rather than the person that wants to spend the rest of your life with him. I wish you the very best.

Answer 9

That doesn't sound too good knowing that he gets his erection from whores (with *****, maybe) from the web, then gets his release out into you! Thats sick. What a perv. But not to worry, just leave his silly azz if you can........................or you can watch it with him, like others have mentioned. Whatever floats your boat, and you are in the same boat, ok, make it float together....just a tony robbins suggestion.

Answer 10

delete it and put a child block on the computer. i tried to enduldge my husbands fanticy and enjoy the movies together and now all he does is stare at those women he pays no attention to me until he needs me and he takes it when i dont want to give it up. he doesnt even care if i cry.