It's got to the point where I am finding it hard to care anymore. I think she may be depressed. We have a good life and I can't figure out why she has to complain all the time. I would be grateful for any suggestions on how I can get her to see the positive side of things again.
2006-09-08 22:23:22 · 18 answers · asked by smellyal8ta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may have a good life, but how is hers?
You said you think she is depressed, so the life you have isn't all that great.
Do you honestly listen to what she is complaining about?
2006-09-10 12:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's depressed try to get her to open up and talk. Or ask a friend of hers to talk to her. this is the time whe you find out what your marriage is made of. Through good times and bad, remember that? Think back to times when she supported you-no matter what the situation was and let her lean on you for a while. Marriage is not 50-50, sometimes it's 100-0 other times 60-40. Whatever the equation help her to get through this-it will make your marriage stronger and is so much better than chucking it all and starting over again. Take it form one who knows all too well!!!! Good luck
2006-09-09 05:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by SONDRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When's the last time you brought her flowers? Surprized her with jewellery? Made her feel special? Do you spend one-on-one time with her? Take her out for a special meal, or a picnic? Any of these things would have you give some attention to her - that's probably what she's lacking.
2006-09-09 08:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever really listened to what shes complaining about ,, maybe its the same thing and it really bothers her as well,, you should try helping to resolve this matter by talking about it and really listen and take action ,,,, don't say i'll do it later , or just never do anything at all
2006-09-09 05:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jezabel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact she is not getting one thing ( GOOD **** ) hence she is always complaining about something.Just showing the nude picture here won't solve your problem You must be able to play well with your tool. Once she will be fully satisfied by your tool she will never complain of anything.
2006-09-09 05:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by a j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on .... let her complain act like you care and be there for her....If I was your wife I'd complain you were advertising yourself on the net naked and saying my wife is a cow.... Lucky me I'm not.
2006-09-09 05:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you want me to believe you haven't contributed in any way to her depression? You are just a poor schlep about whom she complains all the time?
Oh, poor you...
Marriage counseling sounds like a plan to me...
2006-09-09 06:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm what kind of stuff like the fact you are putting a picture of your self naked for kids to see on the Internet freak u should be locked up all ages of people are on this sight
2006-09-09 05:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by burnt bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets see now. your user name gives a fair idea the type of guy you are. then theres the small thing between your legs in the picture. think yourself lucky she is still around.
2006-09-09 05:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by hugo76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wonder shes depressed if she has to look at you man no offence change your pic im too young to go blind.
2006-09-09 05:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by a mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋