2006-09-08 22:04:25 · 30 answers · asked by jess 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well, NO!! NEVER..!!
2006-09-08 22:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by casanova_indica 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, never. Once you forgive a cheater he'll know tht you are soft and can easily forget. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he really did love you, he wouldnt have cheated in a million years, it shows tht he dont have any feeling for you.
Cheating some1 you love is the most terrible sin ever.
Dont forgive him, let him suffer, if he does suffer tht is....give some distance for awhile, study him. If he really did a mistake, he will be after you for a long time, but if he gives up after 3 months, well you got the clear answer, dont waste time there is some1 waiting for you, your soul mate, its hard to find, but if you are really pure at heart and have never hurt other in any way, i promise you will find some1 who respects you and will support you in every aspects of life (such as; love you, admire you, appreciate you, etc)....
2006-09-08 22:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tried this in the past and found that i had lost the trust in the relationship and is slowly died a painful death (the relationship that is)
so now i would not be so forgiving and would dump anyone who would cheat on me....at the end of the day once a cheater always a cheater....and if you forgive a cheater you are basically saying it was ok to do so in the first place.
2006-09-08 22:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the situation, how far the cheating went, if more than once then how long? I would have to factor in all these things before I decided weather or not I would forgive them. Especially since all my exes cheated on me before I broke it off with them.
Brit
2006-09-08 22:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by leoangeldust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very hard.
First to decide to forgive, and than to forgive.
First... I would be shocked, than angry, than I would leave him, than I would cry and feel miserable. When I compose myself again, I would try to analyze what went wrong. Did I neglect him? Did I do something to make him feel I don't care any more? I probably would realized that I didn't.
Than I have only one fault - I trusted him too much. I should know that he is capable of cheating. And I do deserve better than cheater.
Than, after some time, if he still wants me to forgive him... If I realize that hell with that cheater is better than hell without him... I would have to forgive him, because of both of us.
It would be fresh start as it is possible. I would try to look him with the same eyes I looked before. I wouldn't try to keep my eye on him more... If I decide that he deserves and I need one more chance for him, I would never mentioned his cheating again.
But... if he do that again...
It would be "No, nay, never, no, nay, never, no more" and I would embrace hell without him. Because... it is better to be alone, than betrayed.
2006-09-08 23:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely adore my husband, but if he ever cheated on me I would defiantly leave him. I've never believed in staying with someone who is unfaithful. Cheating isn't an accident, it's a selfish decision that someone makes knowing that they are going to hurt the person they claim to love. I could possibly one day forgive him, but I would never trust him again, and I would never be in a relationship with him again.
2006-09-08 23:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried to forgive my first husband, but it didn't work out, because I couldn't forget, we divorced 5 years later. I had two sons from that relationship, the one thing we didn't do was place any burdens on their small shoulders. They have grown up loving their father as they do me. My sons are adults now and when they have family party's every one is invited, there is no animosity between their father and myself we are both in secure and loving relationships.
2006-09-08 22:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lyn I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance. So YES, I would forgive him, forget the past, n go on. But once he broke the second chance, then no more excuse, I will leave him right at that time.
PS: A second chance will only be given to a bf. If he's my husband, then the chance will be forever. Well, we say a vow before GOD, to still be faithfull both in good and bad times.
2006-09-08 22:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No way ! If he can cheat once he'll do it again.
I'm a firm believer in the saying Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-08 22:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not.
I have done that before and it didn't get me anywhere with my ex, all it did was let him know that I would put up with it, and I put up with it for years. Never again.
Now, if my partner cheated, he'd be history IMMEDIATELY.
2006-09-08 22:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could, but it depends on who he cheated with, and being vengeful, I'd probably cheat on him and videotape it and play it on the big plasma screen during the superbowl halftime.
2006-09-08 22:23:19 · answer #11 · answered by High? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋