2006-09-08 21:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Cali Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sondra on here is right. You CAN make it work long distance if you both truly love each other. I had been living with my girlfriend for about 3 months when she was called up. She was stationed up north and I am in Texas. When she came back on a 3 day pass we got married. We had talked about marriage before but I think we kind of rushed into it because we were scared she was going to be sent over seas. Then she had one more visit several months later and we spent another 3 days together. That was the last time I saw her. We did talk on the phone and write letters but I think it was just to much for her and after a year she told me she wanted a divorce. So we did and there are no hard feelings between us. We both know now that we never should have gotten married out of fear. But like Sondra says, if you are TOTALLY committed to someone you CAN make it work. It's not easy by any means but it can be done. Good Luck.
2006-09-09 01:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 12:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an Air Force wife my hubby and I have spent lots of time apart. Visit if you can-I've been to Korea and Italy when he's been stationed there. Phone calls and e-mails are essential-you need to continue to be a couple even though you're separated. If you go hanging out with your single friends at bars, etc., you'll start thinking like them and thinking they have more fun. Don't go there girl-a loving, commited marriage no matter how far apart you are is worth it's weight in gold. Good luck and hang in there-the homecoming will be awesome!!! And remember the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence!!!
2006-09-08 22:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by SONDRA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can meet halfway. Alternate spending weekends in texas, and cali. Run up huge phone bills. Buy webcams. Find a playmate.
2006-09-08 21:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by unpolarized 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him on the phone and IM and even cam if you can. Take care and visit often until you can fix the separation
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-09 02:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet in Nevada.
2006-09-08 21:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i live in australia and my beautiful boyfriend of 4 years lives in america....it sucks! fly to see eachother whenever you can and treasure every moment.
2006-09-08 23:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by J'sGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join him in Texas....
2006-09-08 22:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get sex toys
and dont get friendly w the mail man
2006-09-08 21:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move already woman :)
2006-09-09 01:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Madness_75 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋