Iam married to this loving man but i have a problem with this workmate who claims he love me i have tried to tell him that i just want friendship but he is insisting on a love relationship which am not ready to do and i don't to loose our working hermony pliz advise me thax
2006-09-08 21:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by Halicate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that you are a married woman and friendship is the most he'll ever get.
Be nasty if you have to. Sometimes you have to be nasty to get your point across.
2006-09-08 21:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must tell him that you value him as a friend but that if he keeps insisting on a "love relationship" that you will have to terminate the friendship that you have. Impress upon him that if indeed is your friend that he will cool it on the love thing for that is what friends do, honor and respect the wishes of their friends!
2006-09-09 04:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by old dude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Complaint to the cops before it gets any serious, he definetely knows you married and still loving you for what? He expecting sex only or maybe money, thats 100% sure and confirmed. Maybe if you willing offer him free sex but of course make sure you both play it safe. Try talking to superiors in your office, last resort is the cops. Or else, lose your job, change your home, change your handphone number.
2006-09-09 04:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Vijay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost. Marriage is your number one responsibility unless you want a divorce. I would also see about a different job or position so you don't have to be with him. Or the 2 of you can keep going on but keep it superficial and don't see him outside of work
2006-09-09 05:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by charity2882 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are married, that you don't want a romantic relationship with him and if he keeps it up, you will complain to the boss. If that doesn't do any good, go to your boss and complain. If that still doesn't do any good, tell your husband and ask him to go to the police with you. But however, if you feel like you could not tell your husband, then you secretly love the attention.
2006-09-09 04:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay down the law, he is hitting on you cause you havn't kicked him in the balls and told him to stop harrasing you and the next time he does you will change him from a rooster too a hen.....
get the point...
2006-09-09 04:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
check if you had accidentally lead him to believe his behavior is normal, if you have not encouraged this then you are dealing with Mr, Abusive, don't go done that path, you might have to be mean to get your point across but think of what if, if you give in now.
2006-09-09 04:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not in love with your workmate. you are already doing the best you can. i would tell him to stop his advances though, and also tell him, that if he does not stop then you cannot remain his friend. he'll stop.
2006-09-09 04:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by SivGiger78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"love relationship which am not ready to do "?????
NOT READY?
Does it mean that you will be ready once?
Did you unintentionally give him reason to hope?
He is the one that does not respect working harmony and if he is not capable to be friend with you to hell with him. It also means that he doesn't respect you and your marriage.
2006-09-09 04:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask yourself who you loves more and problem will be solved.sometimes a person just cannot be greedy.do not hurt anyone and yourself
2006-09-09 04:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋