and when the kids are already by different fathers what is the attraction?
i'm not a hater and God bless everyone, i'm just wondering
2006-09-08 20:38:39 · 30 answers · asked by whatwhatwhat 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its true, single mothers are never single. They shouldn't be called single mothers.
2006-09-08 20:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I guess this is one for the guys. And you're talking 3 different scenerios. Date and shack up dont belong with marriage.
Since the latter is much more serious and complicated. So the reasoning there would hafta be love between them.
2006-09-08 20:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason a guy might decide for a chum with advantages over a woman chum is with the help of the fact the girl shall we him.... I even have by no skill EVER been a chum with advantages and by no skill will... because of the fact of my approach i actually doubt that any guy might dare to even inquire from me that... it is fairly disrespectful... it is variety of like asserting you're sturdy adequate to Fuc* yet no longer sturdy adequate for me... he's no longer a actual chum... and you do no longer appreciate your self adequate to tell him immediately up... hear dude.. i'm no longer that kind of female... in case you're actually not waiting for a relationship we are able to be buddies... you could save the advantages including your mom!!! :) LOL sturdy luck
2016-10-14 12:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will not date a woman with kids but would want a woman when they have like 12 kids....There is nothing wrong with dating a woman with kids
2006-09-08 20:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just really great guys who can see past all this 'not my kids' thing.
My uncle married a woman who had kids that weren't his. I guess he just fell in love with her and he's very family-oriented so I guess that's why he didn't mind getting the whole family-package thing instantaneously upon marrying her.
2006-09-08 20:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you cannot help who you fall in love with. If he is willing to take on that baggage more power to him. She deserves to be loved just like everyone else does.
2006-09-08 21:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I think, because it's so often easy to form a relationship with a woman with kids, because it's so likely she needs a man and so is receptive and hopeful.
2006-09-08 20:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know been married for 3 years
and my man loved the way i was w/ my little girl
he loved me then w/ a 3 year old
and still has the same feeings 4 me
2006-09-08 20:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be carrying around more baggage than you know, just because he doesn't have kids in tow doesn't mean he isn't damaged.
2006-09-08 20:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those kind of men want women to keep then so they dont have to work. in my opion they are only using a woman as well the children to make there own living off the woman and children . my opion?
2006-09-08 22:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the really have no (real reason) to totally commit. The long run. When it gets tuff! (OR) They see a ready made family and don't have the ( Juice) to make it happen.
2006-09-08 20:45:37 · answer #11 · answered by CubbysMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋