my friend, jastine(she's a girl), broke up with her bf 1 month ago but there's a guy name, eman, who's courting her before she broke up with his ex and now she's free, she take a commitment with eman. So now, her's ex is asking her to put their relationship again. She still love her ex and want to go back with him but how can she say it to eman though she know that eman will grt hurt and her other friends will get angry at her because her other friends advice her to forget her ex???plzzz help her the best way you know how??!!!.....
2006-09-08 20:08:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She really needs to search her heart and decide what the relationship to her current bf and her ex means to her. When she ultimately makes the decision for herself and no friends are telling who to pick or what to do. She needs to be honest with both of them.. it has to be sincere. Sadly there is no way around hurting others .. friends that care for her will understand her decision because its based on her happiness.
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2006-09-08 20:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to follow her heart.
It's ridiculous for people to be angry with her for making her own decisions. It's HER life, let her ******* live it!
Whichever way she goes, she's still hurting Eman because if she doesn't break up with him, she's not being fair because she's in love with someone else. If she does, he'll be hurt but he'll get over it eventually.
2006-09-09 03:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if im in her shoe,i will say that i need to think more...she need to follow her heart and if she is happy with eman why do need to go back with ur ex....she can explain or talk to eman in a nice way and im sure that he understand that...
if eman really love her and wants her to be happy then let her go...
2006-09-09 03:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey she has to know who she really loves. Don't be with someone just because she don't wanna hurt his feeling. At the end of the day, she is the one going to feel hurt.
for the moment she may need some time alone before making decision. She dont wanna make the wrong decision. it's going to affect her life...
2006-09-09 03:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Zania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend should stay true to herself by deciding on whats best for her. If her friends cares that much for her they should be happy with her decisions. At the end of the day friends come and go and true friends are the ones that are always there for you no matter what and is her happiness that matter.
2006-09-09 03:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by missscio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I am understanding, your girlfriend needs to chill out. She needs to listen to herself and whats best for her, If she makes a mistake she will learn from it. Thebottom line is everyone around her is confusing her let her make the best decision she knows how and as a friend support whatever decision she makes.
2006-09-09 03:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exes should always remain exes. They never work out.
2006-09-09 03:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be able to make her own decisions. If she cant, then it's her problem. She's not gonna listen to anyone's advice.
2006-09-09 03:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cant come here and ask her own questions? sounds a bit like "she" has a trifling friend that likes to get into other peoples business.
2006-09-09 03:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by daddysboicub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up
2006-09-09 03:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋