even if it was a bad break up and u knew the girl you have gotten pregnant is mad and her family is mad at u too? what makes a man not be responsible for the life he has created..he has no support for my pregnancy whatsover!
2006-09-08 19:55:50 · 5 answers · asked by Irish C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I hope i am answering this right cause i am a little confused. I thin it is the woman speeking... if it is...at this point you cannot worry about what the man is going to do...the most important thing in your life now and for the rest of your life is your baby...every decision you make from here on out has to be for your babies best interest. You cant sit around and wait for somebody else to helpl you. There is allot of programs and aids out there that can help you if you need them. Try looking them up on the internet. If i am wron and this is the father asking. Your darn right you have a responsiblity this is your child... it doesnt care if you have the mean to support it...he/she cares that you are there for them and love them and support the things they do
2006-09-08 20:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would make a "man" behave this way? He's not a man. Chances are you're both very young. Many boys in this situation will selfishly choose to ignore the situation as the girl's problem. I wish you luck in figuring this out and peace in your pregnancy. I also wish you the wisdom to surround yourself with people who will be healthy for you. I bet you have some already.
2006-09-09 03:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by juniperflux32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why blame him? YOU got pregnant. YOU are just as responsible as he is and truthfully more, because if the guy rolls out you are the one left with the baby. This is what I don't understand about these girls sometimes. Is the father the only reason you got pregnant? If not, who cares what he does? If he doesn't care about you or the baby, and obviously he doesn't, then get over it and raise your baby without him. If he wants to miss out on it, let him. He's the one who'll regret it.
2006-09-09 03:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are in this situation. It really sucks to hear about how irresponsible some men can be. It is just not fair for the pregnant woman. You all created that life together. Hello, without his sperm, that baby would be impossible to create. Grrr!! That burns me up!
It takes two to tango! It takes two to create a baby.
2006-09-09 03:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk and doesn't want to take up responsibility ,he was a wrong choice simple.
Go to the social security and register for your child support compensation if u want to keep the child!
2006-09-09 03:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋