there is a dude in my class he stares at me and i guess alot of girls like him but when he stares at me does it mean he likes me or something or am i wrong cuz i like him too but my friends say he is ugly what should i do or maybe he is just too shy to make the first move and if he is i don't want to make a move until i am possitive he likes me what should i do?
2006-09-08 19:48:19 · 21 answers · asked by baby_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe he's not sure if u like him, so he's just waiting. Like u r. Why does the guy always have to make the first move? Everyone is afraid of humiliating themselves, but someones gotta do it. U can either sit around and wait to be picked, or U can get up and do the picking. Oh yeah, never mind what ur friends say, they probably want him just as much as u do.
2006-09-08 20:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be many answer to that question. the first that u might think is that he probably likes you but maybe he doesn't too. why don't you try to befriend him so that you'll know if he really likes you or not. i think he could be shy that is why he is just staring at you. in any relationship, friendship is always a good foundation.
2006-09-08 19:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by pink2litle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends and i never agree on guys. so dont let that bother you. start talking to the guy and get to know him. he might be shy so just starting a casual conversation might get him to open up. its not bad for a girl to make the first move. it shows that you go for what you want
2006-09-08 19:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not start a conversation with him
It seems pretty obvious that he is interested and you might need to be the one to get things going
You will never know until you give it a shot
2006-09-08 19:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by onlykats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike up a conversation with him. Do you understand this work? and if he sees you are talkiing to him maybe later he will open up or shut down. either way you can't lose. And as far as everyone else thought on his looks ....so what
2006-09-08 19:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by want-my-advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start a conversation, something about the class or school and see if he pursue the new connection!
2006-09-08 19:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u talk to him nd stuff maybe flirt a little. might make him feel less shy. nd don't care what ur friends say. what matters is whether u find him cute.
2006-09-08 20:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well darlling i think you must be very young bcause your question is so frivolous well dont pay attention to your friend you must know that the jealousy is number one factor between women for fighting so dont pay attention to your friend and if you want to speak with this guy just go ahead you live in a free country is not forbiden to say hi to anyone you please, so just say hi very casual, that is take life very easy and dot hear people hearsay most of them are jealous and envious.
2006-09-08 19:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
c if u r interested don't take anybody's advise. c that how he behaves?
what he is upto?
whether he is a good boy or not?
u say lot of them like him, then definitely he should be good.
if he stares u , u only dare view, proceed.
2006-09-08 20:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what don;t listen to your friends when it comes to boyfriends because you might miss out on the man of your dreams because truthfully it is what you think of him and his looks you have to look him in the face nobody else do. So follow your heart and talk to him.
2006-09-08 19:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by ms.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋