So heres the deal. Im 24 years old and am going to graduate college in about a year. My parents are millionaires, so one day I will be also, even if it is by default. Things came very easy for me in high school. I was good at sports, had lots of friends, new cars, and I am good looking (did some modeling j.crew/stucture/nike. blah blah) High school was all good and well and so was most of college. Now that Im getting older, I cant bank off all the superficial stuff I used to. Im pretty poor, too old for college, and have hardly any friends (being they all graduated and moved on) I can get an average girl easily but when I do I have no interest in them, which makes them go even crazier for me. I know I can get a beautiful girl but just not right now. I will be rich in a few years and I know I will be able to find my insainly georgous. When I meet an average girl I can get close because I expect more. What do i do????
2006-09-08 19:44:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2006-09-08 19:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Great Man 1 · 9⤊ 0⤋
You have an extremely interesting question, and I am poring over the answers trying to find an answer to my own - I think I deserve an insanely smart, interesting and attractive man.
you see, here is the deal. I am 35 - I am already of course graduated from college, from university and cannot be bothered with MBAs. I speak fluently 4 languages and have already traveled the world and lived in many countries. My parents are wealthy, but this is of no relevancy as I am actually making an excellent income. High school was a bore because of all the only average men around, university was better but men were still quite stupid there. I've got the looks - then and now - I used to model for European lingerie. I am very intelligent, and educated in both the technical areas, literature and arts. Hey, comparing to the average man, I can even spell!!!
I am sure now you see my problem. I can easily find an average man - and they become terribly attached - the darlings. What should I do? when I meet average men, I cannot get close because of their lack of conversation and interest. I expect more.
2006-09-09 03:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by OneLilithHidesAnother 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone deserves an extremely attractive woman or man, but in the big scheme of things why should looks matter?
Look for a woman that loves you while you are poor, someone that will not turn out to be a gold digger. If you are going to have a lot of money, you can use your money to take your average women and turn her into a beauty. Cosmic Surgery can do wonders.
Of course, you might want an attractive woman in order to have attractive children.
Best wishes
2006-09-09 02:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by metamorphosisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a swift kick in the butt. I am sorry but you are very self centered. I come from a family with a lot of money and a lot of love. I was taught that it is what is on the inside of a person that counts. I did some modeling as a teenager, but gave it up because of school and then collage. When I met my husband I knew he was not the most handsome man in the world, but he is extremely attractive on the inside. 12 years later I still think he is the most handsome man alive, at least to me. Get over your self and your attitude and you will find a decent if not drop dead gorgeous girl.
P.S. I agree with Lisa's answer.
2006-09-09 02:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound young enough that you should stop worrying about what you deserve, etc., right now, and enjoy the superficial stuff. My advice to you is play the field until you get tired of it, being fastidious about birth control, and when you feel ready to get married, get a lawyer who really knows his or her stuff to do the pre-nup for you. You are all too likely to encounter a really gorgeous girl with a nose for all that good family money, which you'll want to keep after Ms. Gorgeous has tired and moved on.
2006-09-09 02:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No woman wants a man who thinks that he's either better than everybody else or admires himself in the mirror more than he admires her. Money doesn't buy happiness OR love (only in the red light district, but there you can also buy a disease) and I'm sure you know that. One more thing - would you want a "beautiful girl" who had a hideous personality, if any at all, and little thinking ability? Beauty isn't just the physical aspect of somebody, but everything about them. Somebody may be physically beautiful but their personality can make them ugly. How about those models who starve themselves to be a size zero? =D That's who you want to bring home to mama and have a seed with!
2006-09-09 02:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So, you think when you are rich you can get an extremely attractive woman who is only interested in you for your money? Probably yes. If you are really that shallow, you will find someone else who is equally shallow. Therefore I guess there is no point for you developing a personality or anything that might attract a woman on a more meaningful level.
2006-09-09 02:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve a girl at all, let's see you are poor, your parent's are rich. Sounds like they got pissed and cut you off. You are in college on the 6 year plan must be about as sharp as a bowling ball.
Why would any girl want you? you sound narcissistic, immature and shallow and like a real jerk. And I think I am being nice here.
2006-09-09 02:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking till you find the one...
No lie to this true story....
A Army Reserve Specailist was leaving for a 2 year homeland defense assignment, when a young lady with a little boy got in his way, " Excuse me miss" he said to get by her and her son...
Three months later his buddy asked him to take off with his step daughter so he could go see his wife when they came to vist him ( the freind) . " Sure! Why not!" the Spc tought, "Something to do besides sit around all night alone or go to a strip club. "
It happened to be the same girl who he almost fell over trying to leave. To make a long story short, the guy fell for her ... Three years later their married, have a lovely daughter and the little boy calls the soilder Dad.....
Like I said True Story.... I'm the Reservist... never looked to get married ... never tought about it ....
2006-09-09 02:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by R.Elsedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say; stop being so shallow. Instead of worrying about whether you deserve a beautiful woman, worry about what you have done to deserve a good woman. If you have done nothing, then you will end up with a beautiful woman, who does not give two whits about you, but is only with you for the money. Is that what you deserve? Maybe.
2006-09-09 02:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be truely loved by a beautiful woman you must be pure in heart. You should renounce your riches and join an ashram in Oregon and pray for enlightenment. This is particularly important for someone as self-centered as you..
2006-09-09 02:55:22 · answer #11 · answered by bcwestcoaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋