How do i tell someone that i want to remove them from my friend list w/o hurting their feeling?

Question

okie here is the story, i accidentally add this girl to my friend list, i thought she is okie to be friend with by reading her blog, she seems nice, but after i added her to my friend list, she changed, she cussed alots and wrote some nasty stuff about sex in her blog, i'm not discriminated her, but since i'm a good christain girl i just can't imagine myself being her friend anymore :( awwww i'm sad, hurt, i feel betray :( please help me, i don't want to be cruel by just remove her from my friend list without letting her know :(

thankyou very much for reading my long long question ^_^

Answer 1

OK YOU SAY YOU ARE A CHRISTAIN WHAT WOULD CHRIST DO WOULD HE DELETE HERE FROM LIFE.NO,
WOULD HE TURN HIS BACK ON HER BE CAUSE SHE CHANGED, NO. STOP FOR A MINUTE AND SAY A PRAYER FOR HER SHE MY NEED YOU TO BE A GOOD FRIEND.SHE MY NEED YOU TO TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS TRYING TO SAY, THINK HOW CHRIST WOULD FEEL IF YOU WERE GOING TO BACK AWAY FROM HIM.

Answer 2

I tend to remove people off my list especially when they don't contribute towards the blog .. unless she is a friend on the outside world and not someone you really talk to, simply remove her. However if you feel like you need to give her a reason, then send her a quick email - explain that you are sorry however you can no longer read her blog .. I'm sure she will understand.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 3

U can either just remove her and let that be the end, or U can let her know how U feel. Ask her to refrain from the profanity and unsavory sexual content. See what she says. As U know (being a good christian and all) everyone deserves a second chance. U can then base ur decision on how she responds to U.

Smile. (^_^) Don't let this bother U too much.

Answer 4

You don't like her, you think she is a horrible person because she uses profanity and talks about sex a lot. It is ok if you don't like that stuff in other people as your friend. But you don't want her as a friend, you are not her friend, she is not your friend. So what is the big deal about deleting her? Just do it and the next day, possible week, I don't know, you won't even remember her. You will be in the confines of your wholesome "pure" friends. But remember beggars can be choosers. She might curse and talk about sex, ever thought about asking her not to talk about that stuff around you? Or was first thought, eww, she talks like this and acts like this, I don't like her, I want her out of my life for good! Than who is really the bad person here? If you hadn't already, ask her to stop talking like that around you.

Answer 5

Say: after reading you blogs lately, I feel that we don't have much in common and so I am going to remove you from my friend list, because there isn't much point in having you on my list, if we don't have mutual interests or have anything to talk about. I wish you well, Good Bye.

Answer 6

As a best friend you should still go guy shopping with her, just not as often. You should tell her you are very busy and when you have free time, that is not what you want to do. However, promise 1 day a month you guys can shop for man together. Never tell your freind she is a wh**e unless you no longer wnat her to be your freind.

Answer 7

I know you don't want to hurt her, but you should probably just remove her from your friends list. If you are not comfortable with doing that, then just write her a short message explain that you are removing her, and that you hope it doesn't hurt her feelings. There really is no way to do it, that you are going to completely keep from hurting or irritating her. Good Luck

Answer 8

The word says to Not compromise with your christianity. Although in life we are faced with struggles some are controllable while other are not, It is still our job as young christian women to stand and let our light shine to glorify Our Father in heaven. Just let her know that you are trying to live a life that is pleasing to God, and by her cursing and writing sexual content she either needs to stop or you can't allow yourself to be subject to that, and that you may have to block her.

Answer 9

You have every right to remove her from your friends list. She cramps your style. You, being a good Christian girl, pass judgment on her, and deem her unworthy of your acquaintance because her filthy mind soils your Holiness.

Answer 10

you could change your name and not tell her, just your other friends, but thats a lot of work, just do it, take her off, and if she asks, tell her the truth, why are you afraid to do that, the truth is all that matters, you know that, and you are not doing anything wrong, you just are a better person than her, do not feel bad about that....you are an angel....