do you ever do it if you feel the person is worth it and you'll end up together anyway?
2006-09-08 19:20:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its really rare to end up together after you have sex on the first date..
Guys have rules too. Most of them will try you on the first date, and if you give it up, they will lose respect for you.
2006-09-08 19:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
People that pigeonhole how soon a person has sex are stereotyping. It should be case by case without judging how soon a woman puts out. Anyway if people were quick to call a woman a slut for first date sex, don't forget the man is just as much of a slut as she is. Some would say a week, some say months, some say wait until marriage. It's like paper/rock/scissors. Some men find distaste in sex without marriage, some think sex should be done asap and not judged upon, while others think with the madonna/whore complex thinking that an easy girl is worthwhile for sex but not marriage.
You are better off just doing your own thing rather than listening to other people's opinions.
2006-09-12 17:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact from fiction, truth from diction. all spin aside, any gal I get that easy I have no respect for. And I sure could not trust her.
But.....sex in today society is basically only a commodity anyhow. they say wait until the 3rd date at least. What the heck is the different if all you want is to satisfy your loins? You may say it is because he was so hot, but he is just a good warm-blooded bedroom toy with no batteries. If you really want to have a relationship with him, save the bedroom until after you build a foundation on other things. You may end up together but for how long? If it was the rocking sex or over all looks that did it. the sex might get cold way before age starts to take beauty away. then what? Move on because they start looking a little well worn around the fenders? And if it doesn't work with him. Once the word is out, it will muddy the water with anyone else who knows because THAT not you or your personality is what they will try to launch the date off on.
2006-09-08 22:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not? My husband and I did it like that and he was my first. We've been together 9 years married for 5. Take a chance Life is too short. I'm not saying make a habit of that but once in a blue moon if you're really into a guy I don't see anything wrong with that.
2006-09-08 19:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by christi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex on the first date is the ultimate way to say "I'M EASY" You will not bee together to long if you give it up like that to a dude. Men like challenges andif you throw yourself at him, he will just use you for what you got. Take it easy until like the 3rd or 4th date. Never the first.
2006-09-09 09:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do u feel? Did u make a connection before ie same likes and dislikes have a good time together thats not physical. Or if u want it and dont feel pressured enjoy yourself but dont get caught up!
2006-09-08 19:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Eric D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will do it only when i have a strong physical attraction and if i really like him dat much. worth is really individual. ending up together needs 2 to go. u thinking and feeling alone doesnt help the situation.
2006-09-08 19:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always. It's a condition of getting a second date.
2006-09-09 21:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what guys say when a woman has sex with them on the first date?
Yippie?
2006-09-08 20:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will lose all respect for you if you give your body up to him before he actually grows to love you. You may be added to his list of shallow accomplishments, but will never be a respected human being.
2006-09-08 19:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ned B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋