I developed a relationship with a close friend. We are both
in stagnant loveless marriages, but do not want to divorce
for similiar reasons. We have a close bond, miss eachother,
and he makes my knees weak. He seems to feel the same
way. I don't know where this is going , but I'm having a
difficult time letting go because I've never felt this way before.
He seems just as enamored. We have never been intimate
except for kissing.
2006-09-08 18:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is what remains when lust dies.
Therefore, time is what you need to know what you're feeling.
2006-09-08 19:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U gotta get out of the marriage. Anyone who tells U to go for it while ur still married is dead wrong. If ur choosing to stay in a loveless marriage then that's ur fault. U have to evaluate ur reasoning's for prolonging a situation in which u and ur mate are longer committed in a loving way. If ur friend is worth having an affair with then he should be good enough to end ur marriage for. What r u waiting for? U've already kissed this person; that was adultery. U've got to decide where ur heart is.
2006-09-09 02:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a married woman you have to be strong no matter what goes in the marriage.
Think about how would you feel if you found out something like that about your husband...why get married if you want to see someone else......If you are not happy then leave dont cheat and he is married too.... what kind of games do you two play and the sad part you two might be in your husband or his wife face acting like nothing is going on....
If you want to cheat talk yout husband first dont give up on him...maybe this other is just telling you this just to get in your pants trust me I have 7 brothers....You should not be telling you bus. to him if you have a problem with your husband talk to your mother or father never allow someone else to be in your personal bus
Good Luck and dont cheat
2006-09-09 02:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love start with lust. Lust is the draw and love is what develops from there. Enjoy the journey
2006-09-09 02:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not just about the physical. Would you do everything you can to make him happy? Does he feel the same way? ARE you together because of the state of your marriages?
2006-09-09 02:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love it's lust you are not weak in the knees just weak in the head
2006-09-09 02:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋