I make my friends cry on a regular basis. Does that make me honest or mean?
2006-09-08 17:35:10 · 15 answers · asked by JustLynn 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
They gotten use to me and know what to expect by now. My saying is after awhile if you don't know me by now you never will.
2006-09-08 17:49:16 · update #1
You can be too honest sometimes and hurt people
2006-09-08 17:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know one sure thing. I wouldn't want you for a friend. Making your friends cry on a regular basis shows you as an uncaring person. WHY would you want to do that to people, friends or not friends?
You act proud of yourself. You are not blunt, straight forward, honest or mean. You are just plain cruel and hurtful.
2006-09-09 00:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually being blunt it being rude, and straight forward is probably honest and a little rude. I would try to hold back on that a bit so that your friends don't dump you or do something nasty. But no one is perfect, so don't keep beating yourself up, just change your ways and REALLY apologize to the people you may have hurt.
2006-09-09 00:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Janais 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mean. A real friend wouldn't make her friends cry on a regular basis.
2006-09-09 00:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes honesty can be brutal, especially when the person or persons aren't receptive to what you are saying. Lots of people don't like hearing the truth about themselves. Maybe you should try to use some subtlety sometimes. Use your better judgement to disern when is the proper time to be direct and when is the proper time to be subtle.
2006-09-09 01:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would have to say mean, and I would have to ask why? What is it that makes you feel even remotely good inside about that? I guess either you have the wrong kind of friends or they do. Because friends are just that...FRIENDS Im not sure what your definition is of Friendship? How many friends are good one's? Start yourself out with simple goals, eventually you will find one good one that you can laugh with.
2006-09-09 00:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sampson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. Personally, I think that being straight forward is good, coz you when you tell the truth, you make it a problem of the past but if you lie, then you make it a problem of th future.
Secondly, we are better then those whoi go behind peoples back and gossip about them.
Lets face it, TRUTH hurts, so, don't change.
Coz that is what makes you special. You go girl!!!
2006-09-09 00:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with being straightforward, just learn a little empathy and tact. Making people cry all the time is mean.
2006-09-09 00:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by hipichick777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that makes you mean and inconsiderate. Being straightforward and honest is one thing, but you need to be tactful and respectful of other peoples feelings.
2006-09-09 00:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Elora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. You should be honest, but you need a little diplomacy when you are talking to your friends or they won't be your friends for long. Learn how to tone it down.
2006-09-09 00:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋