Im very unhappy.?

Question

I....am really unhappy with how my life is going right now. Ill start with a few things

My personality. I hate it. Right now, I am irritable, moody, mean, just all of the above. There is nothing there to make me happy. I talk to my family kinda mean most of the time, like in a snotty or mean tone. I really dont like it. And, when I am around other people, like at work, I am too quiet and reserved. I mean, I dont fool around at work also. The pizza baker will do little horseplay with me, just little things. But I dont retaliate. I feel so boring and lackluster. I just dont wanna get into trouble or be caught on camera. The waitress I like is also a girl that has fun at that place. I think I take things too seriously or something.

I think its rough because I had a girlfriend and was really happy. I was totally exited all the time. Idk. I just feel drained.

If someone would give me some inspiration and a few good words..id appreciate it. thank you.

Answer 1

Hmm... been there done that. I have felt like a boring person, and have felt like I disliked my personality, and whatnot. One thing you need to do is know that you do have a purpose on this earth other than to eat and crap. You are special one way or another. When I felt like I had no place here a few years ago, I later found that I had credentials that didn't even occur to me. Something that might be making you feel like a boring person is a stressful job. I'm not sure if you like your work or not, but the workplace can really ruin your day. Before I transferred to my current school a couple years ago, I felt like I was in hell. My personality was neutral at school and mean at home--like you. I just took out all my stress on my parents. I don't do that anymore.

My advice would be to remember that you have a purpose, maybe take a vacation, and most importantly, God can help you, if you believe. Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

Hello, a few thoughts come to mind. The first is that you come across as being a good and decent person. You are aware that you are feeling irritable and restless and are taking it out on the people around you, people you care about. You sound a little depressed, something most people go through at one stage or another. A broken heart is awful. I can totally relate to your comment, "I just feel drained".

First of all, be gentle with yourself. Be good to yourself too: eat healthy foods, don't drink too much, and do some exercise that you enjoy. All the little decisions, the good choices, you make help to create a better day. Be at work on time. Listen to music you like. Smile at the waitress, and maybe tell her she looks pretty. You may feel really alone right now, but good things and good people are in store for you. It WILL get better!

Answer 3

Here is a story which I would like to share with you...

Once there is a monk who wants to build a wall in his monastery, so he happily went to

gather all the materials that are required and got started with work.

He gave his 101% of attention in spreading the cement & stacking the bricks piece by

piece to make sure that everything is the most perfect. His expectation for the wall

is like painting the most perfect painting in the world.

The whole wall was finally done up with a total of 101 bricks and he was all ready to

tell everyone in the monastery that he has created the best wall. Suddenly he realised

that 2 of the bricks in the wall are not straight and there is no way that he can fix

it as the cement had harden. He was totally disappointed with himself for making such

a mistake and he had concluded that he has built a bad wall.

The wall is an unavoidable structure in the small monastery so whenever he walk pass

or look at it, he will complain and blame himself for building such an ugly wall with

2 mis-aligned bricks that is such an eyesore.

Then one day there is a visitor went to the monastery and the monk is tasked to bring

the visitor around the monastery. During the walk in the monastery, the monk had tried

to plan a route which the visitor will not get to see the ugly wall that he has built

but unfortunately the wall is an unavoidable structure.

When they had reached the bad wall, the visitor stopped to inspect the wall and

questioned the monk: "Is this wall built by the hands of yours or other fellow monks?"

The monk repiled:" Yes it is by hands and I am the one who built it" Immediately the

visitor is brighten up with a big smile and say:"Wow you are great and it is fantastic

piece of work!" The monk was puzzled and say :"But there are 2 bad bricks over there."

And so the visitor explained: "Oh yes, I saw the 2 bad bricks but I can also see the

99 perfect bricks forming the wall."

Immediately the monk's bad perception for the wall has changed completely and he felt

so proud and happy that he has put up such a nice wall with the other 99 perfect

bricks.

The End

Life is never perfect to the level of how we want it to be. Look around you, there are

many people who are in worst situations than you. What you are unhappy about may only

be like the 2 bad bricks, try to identify the 99 perfect bricks in your

Answer 4

Sweetheart don't know your age, but from the paragraph I'd say about 16.5 or 17 tops. Your young Play some happy music, Go to an amuzement park or the beach. Goof off with some freinds. This is your time to be footloose and fancy free, don't spend it being angry and aggresive. It's all in your head hun, if you want to be in a happy mood just wake up in the morning tell yourself it's going to be a great day, give your mom a kiss and tell her she's beautiful and you love her, look your dad in the eyes and tell him it's a beautiful day so have a nice one. Tickle your younger siblings (laughter is the best medicine) just not enough to get either of you into trouble. As far as your co-workers go a little flirtation wouldn't hurt. I'm sure you can judge what is and isn't appropriate, and as long as it's not too much or too often you probably won't get into trouble. Hope you wake up tomorrow and see the world in an all new light. It's there you just gotta wanna see that way.

Answer 5

I feel ya that's how I feel but I don't think you deserve to be sad. Everybody has a life story but you can start your book over today. You sound deeply depressed. Go see a doctor and don't beat yourself up. Everyday that is given to you is a reason to be happy live it tothe fullest. If you are willing to reach out for help that means you can't be that badof a person cuz the average''mean'' person doesn't see anything wrong with their behavior. Feel better.

Answer 6

Me too. I've really hardened ever since my last gf was gone. And ever since we stopped talking I've become very very moody and angry. And yea I was happy when she was with me and even tho the relationship did not last long at all it was my first true relationship with someone and its hard getting hurt in the end.

Answer 7

Don't let your sucess go to your head and your failures go to your heart! Life isn't always easy, but if you endure to the end all will be well! I love you and I hope that things begin to look up for you!

Answer 8

just give yourself a break...life is full of ups and downs...you'll be happy again don't rush things...sometimes there's a reason behind everything that goes on with us...just go through it and you'll be fine...take care.

Answer 9

;) Life sucks sometimes, but you just gotta hold your head up high and keep going! Someday it will be good, I promise.

Answer 10

Its your life..Change it..No one else is going to do it for you.

If you whining, its your own fault.