My boyfriend of six years today just told me that our sex is getting repetitive. I know he doesnt mean this in a mean way he just want to be more spontanious. I am not really sure what to do though. any ideas?
2006-09-08 17:07:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone goes through that. Either do some role playing, buy some sex toys, watch some porn, or surprise him with a romantic trip to a fancy hotel. Also, find some different places to do it. Try the floor, the shower, in the back yard, in the car, or somewhere outside. But make sure no one can see you. I don't want to watch
2006-09-08 17:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already bored.
Your curiosity is understandable, but there is something to be said for being yourself.
Role-playing once in a while is fun, but you're not learning anything about yourself or him by constantly revisiting old grounds.
What you need to do, is set down and ask each other what turns you & him on?
Gather some "intelligence", then "mix" your best "exciting" moves with your own and give him something to remember and never forget!! OOOlalalala...aaaa
(Reading exotic stories, poems, acting out some of these stories, making love in public places, one of the places I enjoy is " a cemetary ", you'd be amazed how much privacy you have.)
@ artsie
2006-09-08 17:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by crystallamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this only your responsibility to resolve? Six years and you're not talking marriage. Are you even engaged? How long do you two need to decide if you love each other enough to commit to marriage.
Is his next comment going to be-"I'm not good enough for you, maybe we should start seeing other people"? The KISS-OFF phrase. Start REALLY listening to what he's saying. Good luck
2006-09-08 17:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by conetoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake him up to some good lovin. Guys love spontaneity. Add some chocolate or fruit to the foreplay. Maybe watch porn with him or something to find out what new things you could try. Add toys. There is a lot to do to add excitement.
2006-09-08 17:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this book, "Guide To Getting It On" by Paul Joannnides it is very good and handles the topic you brought up maturely. Other than that experiment around but if you aren't comfortable just tell him. I suggest you read the book it is very good.
2006-09-08 17:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Attacus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try different things and explore, different places in your house, different positions, even bondage or something, there are alot of ways, just search the internet or join a forum on the subject
2006-09-08 17:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by penguin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a nice romantic date somewhere your comfortable with the surroundings and privacy, then GET BUSY !!!!!
2006-09-08 17:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by ausaramenra2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i have the same problem try something totaly diffrent and new deep in the back of your mind you have those really dirty thoughts well act on one of them some time be creative and let go and have fun
2006-09-08 17:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should initiate sex when he is least expecting it and in a place where you have never done it before.
2006-09-08 17:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Matt M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a porn movie alone or together. try to learn what the girls do there and make it special in ur own way. watch it together and ask him what he likes and then have fun and try it!
2006-09-08 17:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋