I am just wondering. When you tell your parent "I hope u die" OR "wish you were dead". I am always saying it to my dad when I get really frustrated and get screaming at him because he is too strict sometimes.. last week a boy in my math class who I used to be best friends when we were little, his dad was killed in a car accident last week, and I know for a fact that this kid said this to his dad one time because I was there at his house when he said it.
2006-09-08 17:04:46 · 14 answers · asked by tangerella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know where you are coming from. As a child I would say that too. When I would get in trouble and they whipped me I would tell them " I wish you would die". But you know what my mom died two years ago this month. I wish i had never told her that. I miss her allot. So just remember, You may want them to die, but when it really happens you wish you could take those words back. Tell your dad you love him and your mother too. They are doing whats best for you.
2006-09-08 17:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by CasperinMississippi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe God is trying to teach you a lesson here honey. It might be best if you were to treat your parents with a little more respect. You see what your friend is going through, how would you like to be in his shoes knowing what you've said to your dad? Parents are strict for a reason. It's not just to be mean, like you think. It's to protect you from the harm we see that you don't. Your dad obviously loves and cares enough about you to set limitations. It might be wise to go and apologize, and if you can't bring yourself to do that, the next time he's enforcing his rules, and you are wanting to yell back at him...don't. Instead say "ya know, maybe you're right dad...I"m sorry". You'll be amazed at his reaction.
2006-09-08 17:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wishes do not come true only if you make wishes come true and it sounds like you are not happy with your parents, I do not know of why you feel this way, yet a solution might be is to Communicate with your parents, communication is the most important, I would suggest for you to write a letter to each of your parents in your letter, how you love them and stating how you truly feel, and write about the things that hurt you and express to them your concerns and how these things hurts you. Ask your parent if they willing to sit down with you and listen to what you have to say about your feeling and maybe see if your parents are willing to work out these issues with you, and maybe write out like a contract with them of a list of things they would like you to do and a list of things you want to do, and make rules and guidelines about these things, as an example if your parent want you to do the dishes and you want to stay up an hour later, have this written in a contact that you and your parents will agree to, and follow through with this agreement. Respect one another , be open mined and let go of any angry or resentments , this only cause more conflict and pain.
2006-09-08 17:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by soulstore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have that much control over other people's lives. It is very normal to say things when you get mad that you don't mean. You can make yourself feel calmer about this though by sitting down, closing your eyes, take deep breaths and picture sending you dad love. Do this for 5 or 10 minutes and you will feel how good it makes you to send out positive thoughts instead of negative ones.
2006-09-08 17:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is about the rudest thing I have ever heard. You should be ashamed of your self for even saying such a thing to a parent. Think How bad you would feel if something did happen after you said that. Think about what your friend is going through. I will pray for you. and I think you should pray for forgiveness also..Your parents sacrifice so much to care for you.You should be giving them praise for being stricked enough to keep you on the right track. Sounds like they are not stricked enough. God be with you.
2006-09-08 17:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kids shouldn't say things like that no matter how mad you get towards your parents... I bet your friend is doomed for a mental institution cos he will not be able to live with what he said... I would pray for him if I were you. I would also take amble opportunity to say sorry to your dad.
2006-09-08 17:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good question, its also a good illustration as to why you should never say things like that. Your friend may be plagued with giult for saying something he never really meant,
2006-09-08 17:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should respect your parents!!!!
they are strict for your own good! if they are beating you that's another story.
yes, watch what you wish for.... never wish bad on anyone!
2006-09-08 17:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by magdalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- but it may take many, many years.
2006-09-08 17:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someday you may regret saying and thinking such thoughts
2006-09-08 17:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by lonesom077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋