Why is it the very thing I DON'T want......I get it.
And the very thing I WANT I don't get ?........Does this ever happen to U alot ??
It's like a cosmic thing that happens. I have NO control over it.
2006-09-08 17:02:31 · 8 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sad bue eyes......I see a sparkle !!
Hope . And you are very wise.
2006-09-08 18:57:26 · update #1
Ya, Ange,...I hear what ya;ll r saying
about ...just be happy with what I do
have. Everybody wants better....but
If I get it fine, if I don't, that's ok too !!
Thanks....!!
2006-09-08 19:02:45 · update #2
It is normal for you unless you re-program your mind to attract the things you want.
Faith works this way -- if you are afraid and believe you will get what you don't want -- faith will get it for you because you believed that you would get it
If you believe that you'll get what you want faith will get it for you the same way
2006-09-08 17:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by 5324 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about anything particular?for me,i've gotten a lot out of life,that i don't want.what i do want,always seems to just pass me by.i don't want,to be sick,take pills,be in therapy.i do want,just to have a normal life.to work a full-time job,drive a car,pay my own bills,have a normal social life,etc.just basic things,that a lot of people take for granted.maybe it is a cosmic thing.i believe that i've been chosen to have this kind of life.the only thing i can do,is let go of my expectations for a normal life,and make peace with what i've got.i'm sure your situation isn't quite as bad as mine is.the thing you want,i'm sure you'll find someday.it just takes time for good things to happen.the thing you don't want,maybe you can learn something from that.but i don't know what you do want,and what you don't want,so i can't make that determination.all i can say is,if you really want something,don't give up hope.it's bound to come along someday.
2006-09-09 00:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That seems to happen to me all too much!!!! I figure its happening so I will learn to be happy with what I have and to make the best of it. When I finally do that things seem to get a little better.
2006-09-09 00:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ange 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Positive breeds positive.
If you always expect the worst to happen then it will. If you always look for the negative or the bad side of things then that's all you'll see. Change your attitude & you'll begin to notice that the circumstances around you too will change.
2006-09-09 00:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by paintressa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean...it sucks!! but then again unfortunately, thats life i guess...gotta take the good with the bad...hope things get better for ya!!!!!!
2006-09-09 00:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to be THANKSFULL on everything you got dear. everything has its own way
2006-09-09 00:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Funny Tummy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it works that way
2006-09-09 00:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by barry r 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I spell me you not u.
2006-09-09 00:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋