well this guy comes to pick his wife up from work everynight and we work together me and his wife and everytime he comes to get her he trys to get with me and im married also and i do wont to tell her and my husband how do i go about doing that without hurtting my friend and my husband? please help me with this im gettin very tired of him trying to get with me and he knows that we both r married and that i work with his wife
2006-09-08 16:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Felecia M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell her the truth. If you lose her as a friend, oh well. Let her find out the truth about her husband the hard way. No matter what you tell her, she WILL believe her husband anyway. You should also tell your husband the truth. If her finds out you are lying to him, you will lose some of his trust. And you dont want to do that
2006-09-08 16:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get everyone i.e you, your husband, your friend and his husband together. Relate the story as if it had happened to someone you know and that person had asked for your advice and you are not sure of what to tell her. So you are now seeking their opinion. Asked your colleague if it happened to her what she would do? You can see the reaction of the husband after listening to his wife's reply. Lastly, you can say that you will tell everything out if it happened to you. This should put a stop to the matter.
2006-09-09 00:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by kongchai 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend ASAP.
If you don't tell her, he might change the story around that you were coming on to him.
Also, you shouldn't allow your friend to suffer by being with a man who is willing to commit infidelity. It is wrong in all cases and she needs to get out of a relationship with an unfaithful person.
2006-09-08 23:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is tell your friend about this. friends appriciate honesty and husbands like it when they get along and tell each other the truth. it might hurt but they will appriciate the truth. it is also better if they heard it from you and instead off another friend.
2006-09-08 23:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend. No way around it, someone is going to get hurt but it's better now than later.
2006-09-08 23:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by LNZ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife, and tell your husband! Honesty wont get you hurt!
2006-09-08 23:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by lilmizzerica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST.......because you dont want to get caught up in nothing in the future......hes a jerk--and she needs to know about it---you need to tell your husband what hes doing so that the trust stays there.....good luck
2006-09-08 23:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by rbccuello 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell both the friend and your husband and if he continues bring him into the back room for "fun" and instead cut his thing off with scissors
2006-09-08 23:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by topgunpilot22 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
need someone to talk to
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2006-09-08 23:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by lalalalalala 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
TELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL !!!!!
TELLLLLLLLLLLLLLL !!!!!
TELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
You are just as guilty if you hide it ! It will bite you in the a_____s.
TELL !!!! If the shoe was in the other foot would you not want to know ??? HELLOOOOOOOOO!!!
2006-09-08 23:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋