2006-09-08 16:35:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
auch,,,, lucky that i never ram any girl
2006-09-08 16:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too much information for the internet. Why do you feel that you need the answer of so many people? You really need to talk to your parents, a close grown-up friend, or a pastor. If this is something you need to ask the world, then, no, you are not ready to be out there doing it.
By the way, you don't get a second chance in life to be a virgin. Make the right choice, and hold onto your virginity, until the right person comes along, and until you are truly in love. If the person loves you back, the way he should, he will not pressure you into sex. Are you strong enough to not give into the pressure your friends might put on you for not having sex yet? Look inside your heart and know that you are strong, and that you are in charge of your own body and what you do with it. Your friends might make fun of you, but inside, they will be wishing they could be strong like you. You will never regret waiting for the right time. I will pray that you will make the right decision.
2006-09-09 00:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bookwriter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lie to you, it's uncomfortable the first time. Be sure to purchase some lubricant like K-Y Jelly, and use a bit to make things smoother. Don't forget to use a condom!
That being said, if you are scared, it also might mean that you aren't ready to be sexually active. It's OK; take your time. You don't have to have sex. If you are not ready, just tell your boyfriend, and if he doesn't understand, then he didn't really care for you in the first place. No one should make you feel that you have to be sexually active. It's something that is wonderful when you are ready, and a bad experience if you are not.
Hope this helps!
2006-09-08 23:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your scared then I would suggest not doing it. there are a lot more factors into haveing sex then just if it will hurt or not. I know it hurt when I did it for the first time, but i was ready and i was in love. If your not physically and emotionally ready, then you shouldn't do it. Talk to your parents about it if it's something that your being pushed to do, because you should be able to decide when your ready, and not have someone force you to do something your not ready for.
2006-09-08 23:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by majaji_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your boyfriend wants to do it, but do you? You should think about what you want before you make such a serious decision just to make someone else feel good for about half an hour.
When you are really ready to have sex, and are with a person that really cares about how you feel, it won't hurt. If you just give in to someone who's only concerned with getting one off, it will be painful and leave nothing but bad memories.
2006-09-08 23:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you this first time does hurt some, but why waist that hurt on just your boyfriend I think that you should wait until you have someone that Loves you enough to say I DO before you waist you time on just a boyfriend!!! Good Luck!
2006-09-08 23:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by stormy2u2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? And r u easily hurt? Like if something dropped on your hand? Did it hurt alot? If it did, yes it will hurt. But u need to make sure you know the guy real well, and that he respects you for u and not just for sex. Good luck!!!, and watch out for Diseases, and getting pregnant.
2006-09-08 23:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bandice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I know you're scared because it's your first time, but my dad always says that the chances to do something in the important moment you have to get it. It makes any sense? That when you find something in you're life you don't appreciate until its gone.
You have to do it. Maybe it's your opportunity, don't waste it but if you're not ready don't do it because could make you have a bad time.
I hope you re-think about this and make a wise conclusion.
2006-09-08 23:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. There is a barrier there. OUCH!
Consider waiting until it is VERY RIGHT for you not just because the BF wants to do it. There is time in your future to wait for the right person.
IF you do decide to do it, USE SAFE SEX! No matter what he says there is no taking back many horrible diseases that are out here in the world of uncaring partners.
2006-09-08 23:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way to much information to share on the computer. Consider talking to a family member or close friend. Not everyone in the free world!
2006-09-08 23:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately going to hurt the first time! You will probably bleed too. After around the 4th or 5th time of intercourse, the pain will be gone, and you will find pleasure in sex. All us girls go through it.
2006-09-08 23:38:55 · answer #11 · answered by Geneva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋