Cannot appoach women for a date.
2006-09-08 16:33:16 · 17 answers · asked by Deano 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Join a club or team or some social activity of some sort, talk to people you don't know, don't worry about it, just do it. I know it seems hard, but the more you talk to people, the easier it will be.
2006-09-08 16:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by ncnolin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't look at the woman as someone you want to date at first. Begin by speaking and just talking. Talk about things that interest you. This allows you to know if you have something in common with her. Mention a favorite movie, or restaurant, TV program, etc. Let this allow you to lead into asking for date--eventually.
2006-09-08 16:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visualize who you want to approach and possible reactions. Visualize gracious acceptance and high self esteem after any of them. Then visualize yourself just being relaxed and not being conscious of your performance in asking.
There are times & places in which I have been extremely shy. I find myself extremely self consciousness of my actions and how I perceive I am being perceived. When I can relax and concentrate on the other person and not how I am being perceived, the shyness seems to disappear. Visualizing and practicing things like public speaking helps me. I find when I can forget myself, others accept me as I am. I am also free to enjoy my surroundings and be myself.
2006-09-08 16:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and risk rejection. It gets easier every time. One of my high school buddies used to say, "Heck I ask 10 girls a day if they would like to go out with me. I usually get one that says 'yes'." He was quite the ladies' man, and he wasn't all that good looking.
2006-09-08 16:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course theres pretty much gonna be a time where u overcome it unless u live in a basement all by yourself
2006-09-08 16:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by pOoP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have that problem. i usually pretend I'm someone else or that I'm the absolutely most beautiful girl in the world. or i even say a little prayer to myself and ask God to give me the strength to be stronger.
2006-09-08 16:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suck it up! What is the worst thing that will happen? They say No Geek, or something like that. We all get rejected ( except me)
2006-09-08 16:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like you are confident until you become that way
2006-09-08 16:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to do it, dude... You have to have a thick skin, and not take no personally.... but just move on to the next girl.
Be natural, real, and yourself.... relax and have fun.
2006-09-08 16:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by boj12345 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see a hypnotherapist, they can do amazing things to help you get past the issue.
2006-09-08 16:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋